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Pregnant - can i move out?

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im 15 years old & pregnant - my mom just made me move 3 hrs away from my boyfriend so i have to live with my real dad now. the point is, is there anyway i can legally move in with my boyfriend before i turn 16(which will be next year on august 14th) I live in NC if that helps any of the situation out...please help out. i cant stay here pregnant with no emotional support

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  1. I'm not really sure, but i think that you have to do what your parents say because you are a minor.  I hope you have a safe pregnancy and if he is willing to be a father you will see him sooner or later.


  2. No, you're still a minor-pregnant or not. Unless you become legally emancipated or your boyfriend's parents adopt you, you're pretty much stuck. Sorry, hun :(.

  3. no unless you get their permission

  4. I'm sorry you're going through this hun, but no sadly you can't, short of persuading your parents to hand over parental responsibility for you to your boyfriends parents and living with them, but I presume if they're making you move then this won't be possible. Unless you somehow manage to talk your parents round, it looks like the only way you'll be able to be close to your boyfriends is if he can somehow move closer to you. It must be tough going through this alone and I feel sorry for you - I can understand your parents being angry that he got you pregnant as an underager but it's done now and I'm sorry they're effectively stopping your baby from having a dad for at least the first year of it's life. But please don't be tempted to run away to be with him - you'll be found and taken back and you don't want to draw any attention to you in this way as the last thing you want is the CPD sniffing around. Just focus on being a good mum - join plenty of online support groups which are great, I had a baby by myself, I was older than you (19) but it was still scary, but I managed, and so will you. You'll find becoming a mother will give you a supreme sense of independance and resiliance. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger and this sure will. The year will fly by (believe me it will, my baby is 8 months old now and it honestly doesn't seem like 5 minutes ago that I was holding him in my arms as a newborn) and you can be together then. In the meantime, letters, phonecalls, email, msn, occasional visits - you'll cope. Email me if you want to talk any more. Good luck and congrats on the pregnancy :-)

  5. Call the Dept. of Human Services in your local area for your answer.  They should be able to help you.

  6. If you get married to your boyfriend, your parents will no longer have control over where you live.

  7. Yes! Pregnancy and marriage are reasons for emancipation. I say go for it! Thay cant force you to leave your home or your bf. Run away and go to a run away sheltr call ur bf have him meet u and then go to the authorities,

  8. Young lady your parents are just trying to stop the drama thats a head for you talk to your mother like a women you made had s*x like one there for you should talk to her like one you are right you need emotional support explain that you need him around but no you do not need to live with him sorry young lady i would be wrong in telling you that she is wrong and that you should stay with him by the way how old is he??? IF he has his own apartment he most be to old for you and should be locked up again sorry just saying what i think Good Luck sweet heart keep your head up...

  9. Your dad would have to sign a consent form of somesort and have the boyfriends parents resposible for you... other than that. No  

    (that is if your bf lives with his parents, if he doent you are just going to have to wait until you are older)

  10. no, they need to sign for permission

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