Pregnant teen, how do i tell him?

Question

Me and a guy have been together [unofficially] 4 a year now. We had s*x 3x. The last time, he c... in the condom. I didnt get off rite away cuz i didnt no. I have acid reflux, so ive been puking b4 hand. I asked him a few months ago what he would do if he got a girl preg. and he said he would take care of the girl and the baby, but thats what ALOT of guys say n dont. I love him, but he doenst love me back. Im so scared to tell him. What should i do, step by step? How do I tell my mom? Im gonna keep it, but idk what HES gonna do.

Answer 1

the best you can do is just flat out tell him

and if he leaves you he was never worth your

time and just because your a teen doesnt mean you

cant be a good mom

Answer 2

You did not say how old you are. First of all tell your Mom. You are going  to need all the support you can get. Why are you having s*x when you are not married. You need a husband before you have children.

Your whole life is going to change now it is going to have to be all about that baby. Consider adoption. Tell your Mom.

Answer 3

look this is a very serious problem, why does ur boyfriend doesnt love u back? well if he reeally loves u he will support u, but what r u going to do if he doesnt. do you have anyone that u trust and it is really close to ur family and that will support u if u dont get help from ur partner?

first go and talk w/ ur partner if he  is w/ u than goto the trusted person and tell him or her ur problem and tell him that if he can go w/ u guys to talk 2 ur parents so that they can stop any violence that might occur. if ur parents support u and ur partner doesnt let me tell u something that he is mo... fuc..

and he will regret one day. take care of that baby and yes u can do it alone. u will notice ur true friends,they will be there for u.

Answer 4

ok maybe you should just tell him! i mean if he loves you then he will help with you and the baby!!! if not then he doesnt really love you!!! he needs 2 stick with whst he said bout taking care of the gurl and the baby if he got sm1 pregnant!!!!

Hope this helps

Answer 5

hi my name is dj and my girlfriend of almost a year told me on monday she was pregnat .and why i tell u this first is becase it will help u way more in the long run if u dont tell him it will hurt u and the baby and him more then not telling him and yes my girlfriend is also a teenager and i thing that he would take care of the baby just give him the chance