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Pregnant with twins!!!!

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Oh my god!!!!

I am only 16 and a few hours ago i found out at my 16 week scan that there was 2 heartbeats and i was having twins!! I thought having 1 baby at 16 was bad, but i didnt want to abort it and now i found out that im having 2 !!!! I'm terrified and my boyfriend broke up with me after finding out i was pregnant. So i'm going to be a single 16 year old mum looking after 2 children.

Anyway i'm really worried because i'm going to be getting even bigger than i thought. But what i'm really worried about is giving birth to twins.

Does it hurt more than giving birth to 1 baby??

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I'm a mom of twins, it doesn't hurt twice as much to give birth, I had mine natural, no epideral. It is harder to be pregnant with twins because of the weight you will be carrying. I had one putting pressure on my stomach and the other layed on my bladder, it was uncomfortable to eat and I had to pee all the time. I have also given birth to one baby so I can make a comparison. I was alot more tired with my twins, they zapped my energy. Cudos, for not having an abortion, the best of luck to you. My twins are a true joy!
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its going to basically feel the same!

if u can u might be able to do a c-setion.

but really u probably wouldnt feel it!
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um, my mom has had like triplets, sextuplets, and two sets of twins(another on the way) and she said they dont hurt more, but you have to go threw it twice, if u need help/advice or just someone to talk to about your pregnancy feel free to email me at britt.xox14@ymail.com, i am 14 and have a 7 month old daughter and am pregnant with triplets, so yeah im here for you.
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First off,Congrats and Good Luck.Every pregnancies I had I was pregnant with one baby.My labor for them were ok.Just don't stress about it and get information on what to except doing your labor and delivery.If I have one good advice for you.It would be to tell you to try and finish school,so your unborn children and yourself will beable to make it in the world.Don't let others scare you.They are not in your shoes.You are very strong to want to keep your children.That is the first big step of taking respondabilty to the choice you made.Again,good Luck and god bless you and your babies.If you like to talk you can email me at wildnfree20032001@yahoo.com

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Calm down first, it will all be fine, will you parents give you support when needed (not finanially especially, just being there), you get to be a mum for two little babies, some people wait their whole lives to get one, but now you get two, how special will that be :), and when they grow up they will have a best friend and an amazing mum, you get to infulence two lives and have the most amazing experience with two babies. You are really lucky.

Giving birth to two babies is just like have 1 baby twice, so double the pain im afraid, because unless you are going to have a c section, you will be giving birth to two babies, and two babies are gonna have to come out! so yes it will hurt more, but think of how it will be once they are born, and you get to watch them grow up, being young yourself.

Honestly you will be perfectly fine, getting bigger is a part of being pregnant, and becuase you are young, you will get back into shape more easily.

I wish you the best of luck with everything you do, get all the support you can ok? Your gonna have gorgeous babies in the end, the pain will be worth in it, if you ever need anyone to talk to about it msg me ok?

Hope I helped :)
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I hate to break it to you but yes. It is like giving birth twice in a row. But, unfortunately, I don't think that will be the hardest part for you. you need to think after you give birth and consider how you are going to raise 2 children. Will you be living with your parents? Do you have enough money to financially support 2 kids? What will it be like for them to live without a father? If I were you I would consider the choice of adoption. You can always have kids later in life and it may seem like fun but think about the kids. They won't see a healthy relationship between a husband and a wife as they grown up and trust me, I have sisters who grew up in a seperate house from there father and now that they are 18 and 20 it is affecting them greatly. You may not want to give them up but if you don't realize what a terrible choice it would be to keep them, I'm not sure you are ready to be a mother.
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It doesn't hurt any more or less than giving birth to one. Although, carrying twins is a little more uncomfortable than carrying one, in the belly i'm talking about.

Congrats to your for going through with this and haivng these precious babies. As long as you keep your head on straight and strive to make a life for you and your children you will be fine. It's true that there will be bad days, but it's much more true that you will have amazing days with your little babies. I hope that you have family that is supporting you and will help you out when you have these babies. Good Luck and God Bless you and your precious babies!
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it doesn't matter, it'll hurt regardless unless you get an epidural or have a C-section.
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uh. yeah it does. your pushing two watermelons out of you instead of one..
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Yes, two babies coming out hurt more than one. But, if you let them jab a big needle into your spine (epidural), you won't feel a frickin thing.

I wouldn't be so worried about the pain and getting big, kid. You can worry about pain killers and stretch marks later. You have way bigger problems. You will need all the help you can get.

Are you surprised that daddy bolted? Tell your story to every girl you meet so they can learn from your mistakes. You may alter someone's life in a very good way.
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I'm my sister is pregnant and she was 16 and had 2 babies so I'm 26 and tell ur parents tha it was ur boyfriend fought so if u need help email me add me 2 ur contacts cute avatar

neneclements@yahoo.com
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Haha no.

It hurts just as bad as the first one.
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I guess it would be like, giving birth twice?

Sorry that your boyfriend lef you =(

You'll be okay, don't give up your beautifull babies, they have heartbeats, just like you.

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yes it does and i feel for you b/c im 13 and pregnant and my bf also dumped me when i told him :( just stick it out yer babys will thank you
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Well yes you are young but hopefully this will change you and your life. Babies are a gift and you are luck enough to be blessed with two.

Birth hurts - yes - no matter vaginal delivery or C-section. BUT you just ask for an epidural and you should be okay - yes you will be sore after but that is to be expected.

Congratulations.... But girl - you got your hands full - Babies are tough work - but the reward - the love you will have for each other.... No one will EVER be able to touch that...
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well it will hurt the same as the first baby, ull juss have to do it twice. sorry to hear about ur boyfriend. as long as u have ur familys support.

good luck!!
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Wow, that's gonna be hard work. You'll be fine though, having two babies will make it all worth while.

Will it hurt more? I shouldn't think so. It's possible that you'll have a cesarean, which happens in a large number of twin births. Or if you don't, then it won't hurt THAT much more because baby#1 will have already stretched you. Obviously, it will hurt, but they will give you something for the pain.

Congrats, and good luck!
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