Preschool behavour issues?

Question

my 3yr is in preschool everyday the teachers complaints about her behavour. it started with her calling everyone stupid even the teacher.. so i had a talk with her.. the next day the very same thing. just today .. the director made a lenght complain to her dad.. she jumps on the table call the other student stupid and hits them.. and the teacher said she does not listen and she plays by herself... so the other day i pick her up and she said to me mommy ur my best friend.. i know something is going with her i just dont know what to do . help is desperately needed..

Answer 1

There are a lot of factors that could be going on here but the first thing you have to go is request a meeting with the teacher, director, and you. Make sure everyone at the table knows that you are on the same page and that you don't accept this behavior either. Focus the meeting on everyone doing the samething when this behavior occurs, time out, reduction in playtime, etc. Be consistant. Consider what is causing this behavior, is everyone stupid :), is she used to being one on one with you and dad? Is she an only child? 3 is a hard age and none of them are perfect. Something is triggering this. Maybe she just wants to go home, but don't give in. Ask if the staff is praising her when she is doing good. Praise goes along way with these little ones. Trust me there is something going on and it may just be something as simple as seeing how much she can get away with.

Answer 2

Why is she in preschool everyday?

Do you use it as daycare?

She should be there only 3 days per week, 1/2  day .

I would cut back if I could, because she is not happy, and is showing it.

Answer 3

maybe she follows ur example....have she ever seen u cdall someone wstupid or hit someone? idk that acould be it