Pressuring boyfriend......i refuse to lisen........but i refuse to break up with him......?

Question

ok so im in the 7th grade and im going out/ dating a 7th grade boy.....we liked each other since about 1st but didnt start going out until 5th.....so its been about 2 years

and he keeps asking me and txting me saying "you ready for s*x?

and i just write back.... "no no no no no"

and it seems to be bothering

i havent done anything other than kissing / making out with him!!!

isnt there a million more stuff between that come before s*x??

is he moving to fast or am i moving to slow???

i would never break up with him and he would never break up with me

i dont want to have s*x but he does

what do i do????

*****NO RUDE***

Answer 1

Wait till at least 16.

7th graders (12-13 year olds) are NOT ready for s*x. Most 16 year olds aren't even ready, let alone 12-13 year olds.

Answer 2

Tell him you are only in 7th grade, and you want to wait until you can handle it, and if likes you enough he will be willing to wait. Don't do something you don't want to do just becuase he wants to.

Answer 3

LEAVE HIM! hes a filthy pervert. dont give in to that youll regret it in your future. if thats what he wants of you, dont be gullible. youre the woman, youre the boss !

Answer 4

DON'T do it! You've been brave in saying no so far. You are both far too young to be even thinking of s*x, there's a lot more to it than the physical side; emotionally as well. Chances are, he could be being pressured by peers. Or at least I hope so. Try talking to him face to face about it.

Stick to what you believe in. You don't want to be doing something as major as this when you don't want to. Never be pressured into anything. If he doesn't get the message, or doesn't understand then he isn't worth it. That's probably not what you want to be hearing, and i'm sorry but this is what I personally think. Best of luck and I hope it all works itself out :)

Answer 5

Jesus christ, in seventh grade I was playing neopets and still looking at pokemon cards. Not worrying about p***s.

Answer 6

Always remember that you should never do what you don't want to do. If you are not ready, you are NOT ready and shouldn't do it. If you want to do it, do it... There are so many STD and Pregnancy risks now-a-days that I don't know if I would do it...

He is moving fast. For goodness sakes, you're not even 14 yet!

Answer 7

i say stick to fumbling around and occasinal handjobs.

Answer 8

Tell him exactly how you feel.

If you're not ready for s*x, then don't have s*x.

If he truly cares for you, he'll understand and stop asking/pressuring you.

Don't do it, you'll end up regretting it.

Wait until you feel totally comfortable.

7th grade is still reallyyyy young to be having s*x..

And I'm sure at your age, neither of you want a baby, std, etc.

s*x has lots of risks/consequences.

You're being very smart by telling him no.

Just keep saying no, don't give in to him.

Answer 9

omg i thought u were going to be like 17 not 12! say no. 7th grade!!!

Answer 10

losing your virginity in middle school is just sad.

Answer 11

Your too young to be worried about s*x...Tell him that its your way or the high way(no s*x or its over)...tell him how you feel...Goodluck =]

Answer 12

ahhh kid ok im 16 and im gonna be a junior...

im still a virgin..but in 7th grade i wanted s*x bad especially if i had a gf (and dont get me wrong i still do lol) but thats tooooo young

u willll regret it later and hes just going thru puberty..so its just an early stage

just say no and if he doesnt accept it then hes not good enuf for anything

and yes theres other stuff before s*x..a lot

Answer 13

Stick to your guns.  You are NOT moving slow, are you 12? 13??  That is WAY too young to be even thinking about s*x!  He needs to respect your decision and that is it.  If he doesn't than show him the door...  Do you want to be pregnant at 12??  you have your WHOLE life ahead of you.  Right now concentrate on school and sports (if you play them).  If he truly cares for you, then he will wait till you ready, hopefully when you get married, because that is the best time...

Answer 14

wait till you get into high school. if anyone finds out that you have s*x now you are going to have the worst reputation.

you have to communicate with him have a sit down talk

Answer 15

Unless you want to get pregnant or get an STD, don't have s*x!! Your boyfriend is moving wayyyyy too fast. I don't think you should even have a boyfriend in 7th grade to be honest with you. Be open to other people. Why tie yourself down so fast?

Answer 16

good job telling him no.. but make sure u stick with that answer

seince your in 7th grade u are totally not ready

but i had the sanme proublem with my bf preasureing me and i always said no too but then i fiannly let in and i regret it 100% so dont let someone make u do somthing u dont want to

Answer 17

Never let anyone pressure you into s*x.

Its a big deal for girls, I wish i would have waited a little longer.

You are way to young.

Try talking to him and explaining to him that you arent ready and you want him to stop pressuring you.