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Problem making friends again!! In desperate need of help!!! Please!!?

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Since 4th grade, I have been best friends with this girl. Then in 7th grade, we met another girl and we were all best friends(but we had other friends as well). My town has 2 high schools. The middle school splits the kids up, so half the kids go to one high school, and the other half, to the other high school. Unfortunately, most of my friends went to the one high school, and I was stuck at the other. I had a really hard time making friends, so I transferred high schools my sophomore year to be at the school all my friends were at. But my one friend is very sensitive and always thinks people are mad at her. Whenever I get in a bad mood, I don't tell anyone in school what's wrong with me because I don't trust a lot of people. The only person I talk to my big problems about is my mom and my cousin. I don't tell any of my friends. But my one friend always thinks I'm mad at her when I don't tell her whats wrong. And when I tell her that I don't feel like telling her whats wrong, she thinks it's because I'm mad at her, but I tell her that I'm not. (This has happened way more than once too). So then she thought I was mad at her for not telling her my problems, and she tells all of our friends that I'm mad at her. Long story short, all my friends,(including the one that thought I was mad at her) ganged up on me in the bathroom at school and were screaming at me about how I'm always mad at my one friend. After that incident, people were calling my house and wouldn't leave me alone. And most of my friends are no longer my friends anymore. I think the friend that caused the problem was basically her fault that I lost all of my friends but she just doesn't get it. I did have a couple of acquantinces after that and I talked to people in my classes, but I didn't have any friends. I am now going into my junior year of high school, and I really want to make friends, because I don't want to feel lonely anymore, but I don't know how because I was friends with the same people since elem. school. So how do I make new friends?

And also, after my friend turned all of my other friends against me, people were saying that I was the one that caused the drama. But I disagree. Was it really my friend that caused drama for telling everyone that I was mad at her when I really wasn't?

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  1. I had a friend just like you in school.  She was always fricking mad!  But always wanting attention for it to, in hopes everyone would swoon around her.  She's 52 years old now and still the same type of person and has a hard time making friends.    

    LIGHTEN up!!   May be have your mom get you some sort of anger management  or  have your hormones checked.  

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