Problem out of ex-husband.?

Question

My ex - husband has always. gotten to me (under my skin) I can't even talk to him. We share three children together.He never helps me out with anything our kids need.He rescently got a house gave to him from his father.He Has a job working under the table.(cash)..I won"t tell me where he is working.He has lots of cars and ware's new clothes.all the time..I have to asked him on his time to watch our kids so that i can work.So the kids can be took care of.He knows how to play the system.When we go to court he ware's rags and there's know proof he is working.So i am left in the cold watching him live it up with his 18 yr old girlfrind..

Answer 1

Been there, had to deal with that.  In order to get my ex to pay up, I had to spend some money to get some money.  I hired a private investigator who followed him for two weeks.  Showing he owned his home, (he was the only one coming and going).  His driving his hot car, going to work to different job sites (which he couldn't show paycheck stubs for) and also going out on the town dressed to the nines.  It cost me some time and money but oh honey.... he's paying for it all now.  Go get him!

Answer 2

I know it's hard on you but you cannot make this jerk step up & be a father.  The only thing you can do is try to give your kids the best possible life.

As for the court system he won't be able to work under the table forever so they'll catch up with him and will probably assess back child support.

Answer 3

I say that just wait for the oder to go through and once that does just let him sit without paying anything.... Call your local FOC office to see what the limit that he can reach for child suport before issuing a worrant for his arest. Wait for it to come to that point and call the cops every single time and eventually he will get tired of it. When taxes come around call the courts and let them no. I would try calling the new wife and asking her to be somewhat suportive to you. I have a boyfriend and he has previous kids with a ex wife. Three is three kids and her. I know that you probably don't believe me but I help her as much as I can. I think being a women helps me have compation for another person. I make my boyfriend help her if she needs it. If she was any kind of a women she would understand if he doesn't want to help and she refuses to get into it I am sorry for your luck but there are many different programs out there for single moms. I have to boys and the father does nothing he chooses to go to jail rather than pay but i got help for friends and family it will work out when you least expect it