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Question

Im 16 yr old male, and need help... i talk like a girl and act more like one more than i do a dude.... how can i talk and act more like a dude... because i feel stupid... and yes im sure im male lol, im not confused about my gender but just need help any ideas?

Answer 1

i agree with the girl above me just wait it out you will become a boy to a man lol

Answer 2

ok you may be metro... wich is not a bad thing.... yor straght but some time tend to act a little feminan.  other wise i wouldent worrrie about it... be your self... thats all any one is realy looking for.... dont try to chang the way you act for some chick.  

every one acts diffrent twards every diffrent kind of person... for example    i actct way diffrent with my boyfrind then i do with my best girlfriends.... i do not do it on purpose... we all have many diffrent personalitys.. and the more variety of people you meet the more your diffrent personalitys will be unlocked.  people tend to influenc you on the way you act around them... its just how social behavior works.  

the more you act around sertin people the more you grow.. and you can finde a cirtan side of you that you wold never have thought of haveing.

if you and this chick are cool with eachother they way you already are.

then you shouldent have to chang for her

ok i red the question wrong... but listen  dont chang your self. im shure your awesome... you shouldnt care what other people think of you ..... JUSUT BE YOURSELF!

because thats where the true people come from. dont be embarsed about the way you talk ..... thats all i have to say

Answer 3

OH u are g*y then. Men who are g*y have a voice like a girl with a slight lisp. Or u want a s*x change. Mabye ur voice did'nt change yet.Wel i am not gey but go to some sports games and go to a strip club. Hope i helped!!

Answer 4

are you straight?

Answer 5

is your voice changed?

just try acting like your dude freinds.  But if they do dumb stuff like drugs do not act like them  

Answer 6

Maybe try to get a hair cut try wearing alot of black and alot of boy stuff try a new hair style

Answer 7

sounds like you're g*y but if you aren't then use a deeper voice and find something like sports or other guy stuff to try to follow.

Answer 8

Just be yourself. That's ok. If people don't accept you, then deal with it and search people that really like you like you were born. Don't change yourself for people.

Answer 9

oh your g*y well thats why!!!! just be more masculine wear guys clothes and deepen you voice!

Answer 10

just be yourself if your freinds are telling you that then they are not rlly your freinds

Answer 11

Be yourself and learn to love it, regardless.

Answer 12

I am italian

Answer 13

Oo.

Hormones.

They'll deepen your voice and put hair on your chest!

;D

Answer 14

hang with guy and get intrested in guy things, this is a little wierd, but you'll pull through. just find guy stuff u'r interested in.

Answer 15

don't act like something your not, if your more effeminate then so be it, i know alot of guys like that, just try and stay away from rural  areas.

Answer 16

Hey dude

Don't worry. You are who you are. Maybe it's not bad thing being a bit feminine.

best of luck with everything :)