Problem with Sis-in-law! Fam issues!?

Question

A few weeks ago I posted some questions on here about the fact that she is engaged to a complete racist homophob. Right now my husband is out of town during the week so we rent a house with her and myself and 14 mo old so are here all week. I also have a live journal account in which I vented about him and not wanting him around our son. So, within the past week she is never here, always at his house. The reason I had her as a roommate was that I didn't want to live alone and get scared at night. Now she is gone. How do I address this? Do I just ask her if she saw what I wrote? I have nothing against her. I just don't like him making rude comments, especially around our son. I didn't mean to make her disappear, you know? What should I do? My son loves her, too, so I hate that she isn't around.

Answer 1

if u are old enough to have achild u should be old enough to not be afraid of the dark and need someone there to keep u from being scared at night.  If u truly have a problem with him... u should take it up with ur husband, sis in law and him.. not the on line world!  get a backbone and stop complaining behind their backs to people u have never met and tell each of them ur concerns! if for nothing else - to teach ur child the proper way to handle conflict

Answer 2

dont worry about it-least if she did read it she knows whats goin on. if it wasnt true she wouldve came to u about it.

Answer 3

this is why you shouldnever wright anything you dont want the WHOLE world to read posted somewhere  well where the whole world can read it...

anyways love is blind.. shes not going to like her bad mouthing him..

sit down with her and ask if there is a way you can aproce him in regards to his language around your son and you dont like it but would like HER advice on how to bring it up with her..

this will giver her a understanding you dont aprove/ Hes a jerk even around kids\ and/ maybe not the right person for her...

all with out haveing you badmouth him making her feel defincive

hope this helps

Answer 4

As long as she pays her part of the rent...she is living up to the bargain...as far as you have stated. I completely understand your son loving her, but children are quite resilient. I've heard this and been witness to it. Clearly, you are living their alone and surviving...so her presence is not necessary...grow up. You're a mom now.