Problem with a close 'guy' friend, please help? (10 points) ?

Question

Me and this boy have been good mates for a long time now (over 8 years). Anyway, a year or so ago, he kept mouthing 'i love you'. I thought this was okay at first because we were such good friends. A while later, he asked me out, and I rejected him because I knew we wouldn't be good together and I didn't want to wreck our friendship. He seemed to take it fine, but then a few weeks later he asked me out again. And again. And again.

A year later, we don't see each other much anymore, but I try to meet up as much as possible. However he won't meet up with me when his new girlfriend is around. So basically we meet up when she's on holiday or something, and he's all chummy with me :)

It's really weird and I want to know if theres any particular reason he is doing this. Thank you :)

Answer 1

I think that you should have gave it a chance . If you've been friends for over 8 years and it didn't work out, He would understand . Also i think that if hes being Chummy and flirty with you even though he has a girlfriend and he only wants to see you when shes on holiday , that might be bad ! He likes to be with you but hes not going to break up with his girlfriend and you shouldn't flirt back and give him that wrong idea .

Answer 2

maybe she told his grilfriend about u and thought she will go kung fu and say wat the h**l r u doing with my boy friend !

Answer 3

Mayb he's really in love with you!!!!! and hurt cos u rejectd him:X

u should explain to him why u dont wanna go out wit him and so he'd b able to understand u, then u ask him to tell u why he's acting this way.

try to b clear to each other. Friend ship is the best!:):)

Good luck!!!!!!!!!!