Problem with a friend...?

Question

There is a girl I like at university, she is my friend and I know she's single.

She has a lot of friends who are guys as well and it kind of scares me off because I think they're interested in her and I have no chance.

It also really sucks because sometimes I do things that she doesn't like such as saying stupid things and that, it really makes me upset because I really like her and it sucks when she's angry with me.

Also, I don't seem to make her laugh as much as other guys do and I really like her and I want her to like me more because I'm a great guy, I just don't know what to do...

Can anybody give me some suggestions on how to get back some ground?

Answer 1

-Pay her complements

-Tell good jokes

-dress nicely

-drop gifts on her desk and sign then 'from your secret admirer'

-work up the guts to ask her out

-if she says yes reveal to her that you were the secret admirer

Answer 2

You need to talk to her and explain that you do indeed like her but unfortunately you get a little tongue tied when your around her. Girls do like confidence so be confident when you tell her , let her know how you feel and ask her to lunch or something. If she says no the best thing you can do is ask someone else out and make sure she knows other girls are interested in you .

Good Luck

Answer 3

Start Afresh and enjoy!

Answer 4

Take her aside and apologise for the stuff you do that makes her angry. Show her your mature side. Be genuine and sensitive about it and let her know you think she is a great person and that it's your stupidty and insensitiveness and you should know better, then, tell her you hope it won't ruin the chances of becoming good friends. - That is your fresh start.

From then on don't be silly, just be the nice and normal person you are (there is a nice and normal person in everyone) and see where it goes fron there. Maybe after a while you could ask her out for coffee or something. If she says yes, then that's a good sign, and if she likes you she's guarranteed to give you some kind of hint from there after. If not, take it in your stride and move on because there's someone else out there for you.

Remember there was never a romantic relationship that didn't start off as friends even if it was only for a short while! (not that I am implying, that's how long it takes). Just don't say stupid things and act in the opposite way of how you feel, trust me! Once a guy liked me and he did just that. Guess what happened? -I had no idea he liked me until he moved on because he thought i didn't like him (I only found out when he had to answer a question by an inquisitive girl during a game of truth or dare). How silly, hey?

Hope this helps, good luck!

Answer 5

hey go straight to her and tell her your feeling, don't be scared of those guys that shows you are man enough..