Problem with boy(s)?

Question

sorry this is going to be REALLY long!

i was good friends with this guy but then one day he just stopped talking to me. he just acted like i wasnt there (he didnt do anything like stare or glare at me) he RARELY talked to me, like once every 2 months? and when he did talk it was like only one word.

then when i had almost put the fact behind me that we werent friends anymore, this other guy in my class that i had NEVER talked to before (like seriously, never. sometimes i didnt even know he was there until the teacher called on him) just suddenly started talking to me when one of my friends told him to take another girls seat that was next to mine. and then, like before, we became friends and he even gave me a b-day present (which is almost when school ended) so then it was summer and i was away on vacation the whole summer. then when i came back he also didnt talk to me anymore. he was just like the first guy.

so im really confused and i dont know if its because i was on vacation too long and we barely talked but when he didnt have the chance ( like when we were both online) he didnt talk and it was always me starting the conversation. is there something wrong with me?

thanks for reading this extremely long thing!

Answer 1

Sorry, its too long to read

good luck

Answer 2

to be honest they might juz feel that if they talk to u too long their gfs would get pissed at them, so they are trying to give more time to their gfs...now i do think the two guys who don't talk much have bit of issue of not talking to someone, as a friend, other than their girl...maybe just ask why they aren't talking too much to u, n just say you want to talk just as friends and hang out

Answer 3

I will never understand guys. I'm positive that there is absolutley nothing wrong with you. If anything, there's something wrong with them. You should go up to one of them and try to start a conversation, and focus it on him. Boys love talking about themselves. And once you've got him talking, ask him why you stopped talking so much, or just say something along the lines of "remember when we used to talk so much? that was pretty cool" xD

Or maybe something has just come up in his life that you haven't found out about yet. Ask him if anything has happened recently. Maybe he doesn't even realise you haven't been talking as much...

But again, boys are very hard to understand. xD

Best of luck to you! :)