Problem with my sister. Importand!

Question

Since we moved to Cherry Hills my sister became cold hearted. She doesn't care about anybody around her and thinks everyone should only pay attention to her. If she doesn't get what she wants she'll make all she can to make everyone feel guilty. where did that kind of behavior came from? Also even though she's got lots of money she's really stingy. She never remembers any good stuff we've done for her (my whole family) but only brings up some old c**p nobody ever paid attention to just to show us how bad we are. all we ever do is trying to make everyone around happy so why is she acting up this way? she's only 18. Our parents are nice generous people who are known for taking care of everyone and everything.. how come she doesn't? we're just really sick of her sometimes. any advices????

Answer 1

She is Probably Menstruating.

Answer 2

maybe tis has somethin to do with the moving to Cherry Hills. She maybe tyring to find fault with everyting and everyone to protest bout the moving. she cud be havin diffiiculty adjusting to the new neighbourhood, new school or work place, new frens, new environment. try talking to her. make her see that u and ur family are still the same and are all there for her. when she does one of the "tantrum" again, well try first being angry with her and then slowly quiet down and pretend that u're hurt or pretend to be crying. i'm sure she'll come over to u to see wat happened and then slowly start making conversation like how she have changed and stuff like that. maybe it will make her realised wat she have become and open up to you again. or maybe she's plain turned into a brat.  

Answer 3

smack her in the face, and yell at her until she cries. some people are just so stupid sometimes. ugh. im sorry about your sis dude, but omg by what youre telling me, if she was my sis, id give her a big lecture.

Answer 4

Back off from her - don't show any emotion whatsoever to her - she will soon pick up the detachment from you.

The more attention you give her - the more she will enjoy rattling your cage.

Ignore means to deprive her of the attention she craves - when she changes her tactic positively respond with hugs letting her feel reward for better behaviour.

Best wishes.