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Okay well today i was so upset because i am not good with people especially in cali and my mom is trying to make me go to a school with a lot of people. the reason i said in cali is because I'm used to southern hospitality down in louisiana where everyone would smile at you just to be nice rather than people clowning you because of something simple(oakland ) not all of cali just from where i've been so no disrespect. Another thing we are staying with my moms parents and they really don't want us here. Now people at school where calling my brother names for nothing and wanted to steal his shoes. btw I'm very protective of my brother personal reasons. Okay and i fell moms mom doesn't like us as much as everyone of her other kids! i feel like ill bust so serious there's a lot more but i don't feel like typing it all i hate it here!!!!!!!

any help also i feel embarrassed to cry in front of my fam because I'm the strong quiet one. Oh anyone with help say so.

thank you so much any answers help also im only 14 and probably went through more than most people who are elderly.

kayla

Answer 1

well,  you can cry until the cows come home and it is not going to make california into lousiana.

make the best of the situation you are in and stop complaining there is nothing anyone can do anyway!!!

Answer 2

Since you can't change your circumstances, try to get help to adapt.  Ask your grandmother how she really feels.  Talk to your mother in private about your school problems.  YOU CAN CRY ABOUT IT.  There's nothing wrong with that.  Crying with someone there helps you feel a little better.  I can understand you not wanting to cry in front of everyone, but if you trust your mom enough to cry in front of her, do so.  You may also talk to a school counseler.  If you're at a big school, I'm sure you have one.  He/she might have further guidance.  I come from a small school without cliques.  I can't really help on getting acceptance at school.