Problems getting pregnant plz help?

Question

Ok me & my fiance have been trying to concieve for 4 months now.I have been having my periods mostly reguilarly.I aint on birth control.I have had chlamedia b4 & the more serious form I forgot what its called but I went to the doctor in September 08 for a apmnt on that & they said I had no more std's.They even did all the tests.I have had unregular paps ,I went in for a appointment got the procedure after a pap if there irregular.There were some cancerous cells but she scarped them out.And everytime I get a pap smeer they said my cervix is hard to find.

I don't know if I can get pregnant,I would be devistated if I couldn't.It tears me to pierces.Plz serious answers only

Answer 1

Four months is really not that long friend...first off, relax, and stop stressing...Have you been to fertilityFriend.com yet? that site is free, and amazing, it will teach you all about recording your temperatures, so you will know around the time you ovulate.

*Buy a basal Body thermometer

*Learn how to record your temps (fertility friend does this for you).

*check for fertile cervical mucus, the clear, egg white, stretchy discharge is the most fertile, and you should make love every time you see this, however not all woman make this, so even Watery discharge is considered fertile.

* I used ovulation predictor kits for only 2 months, just to help give me a baseline of what my cycles were like, after that i stopped buying them~ waste of money, honestly  

*Take a prenatal pill or multivitamin everyday to make your body it's healthiest.

* I recommend the book the book "Taking Charge of Your fertility" thousands of woman swear by this book.

By reading this book, i learned so much about my body, my fertility and fell pregnant w/ baby # 3 after only three months of trying.  years ago, it took us 19 months of trying randomly.

Personally, i stopped using OPK's because they only stressed me out and were expensive. We kind of stopped "trying" the last month and just used my natural fertility signs to time intercourse. We had dinner, drinks (although I'd watch the alcohol intake, as it was very moderate), we relaxed, and enjoyed s*x, sure enough it happened.

After love making, theres no need to hang upside down or put your legs against the wall, positions honestly don't make a huge difference either, as long as you stay in bed with a pillow or two under your hips for thirty minutes you'll be fine. Make this as natural as possible.

My last bit of advise, Don't talk about it constantly, in fact try not to bring it up a whole lot, this will take the stress off of him, and you too. &  NEVER SAY TO YOUR PARTNER RIGHT BEFORE s*x: "ok, it;s time, I'm ovulating" That is a real mood killer and believe it or not, it may cause him to ejaculate less if he's not that into it!!! You want him to preform at his best, and have a good ejaculation.

Good LucK and happy baby dancing!!! Remember relax, and enjoy your selfs, it will happen!!!  

Answer 2

it sounds like you're doing everything you need to do to be able to conceive by taking care of your health, keep in mind it can take a long time to conceive, they recommend you talk to a fertility specialist after 6 months of trying with no luck if you're older than 35, or after a year if you're younger...so hang in there and make sure you're having intercourse during ovulation/your most fertile time, you can learn more about this and also ask a fertility specialist online for free for advice, try fertilityties.com

good luck!