Problems in the bedroom after baby please help?

Question

my husband complains that we dont have enough ``rounds`` when we have s*x now. We still have s*x at least 1-2 times a week its just that i am exhausted after round one. we have 2 kids and i just fing im really tired at the end of the day.

Answer 1

Try leaving him with the kids for one afternoon and see if he feels like going all nigh lone. I don't think men realize how much taking care of kids takes out of you. I think that will give him a dose of medicine that will wake him up. Good luck and don't stress if he does not understand then he needs to get a life and get over himself.

Answer 2

You need to talk to your husband and tell him how you feel. He should be supportive of you and realize that being a mother 24/7 is exhausting.  1-2 times per week is far more than a lot of moms!  I guarantee you that.  And while it may not make your husband feel better, it's just how it is.  Just make those 1-2 times per week extra special. Spice it up with cute lingerie or some nice music.  Tell him to help you make it extra special so it counts even more and it becomes something that the two of you really look forward to each week.

Good luck!

Answer 3

i don't think guys will ever get enough s*x  

Answer 4

I told my husband that him cleaning the house is like foreplay for me.  I can't be romantic when I still have a list of chores to do.  It worked and when I saw he was working hard to help me clean I would realize that he wanted some "attention" and that helped me get emotionally ready as well for what was ahead.

Answer 5

explain to him that you are exhausted. try to make him understand that your not up to it sometimes.

Answer 6

Try mornings. Get up before he does, and 'wake him up'.

Don't skip making love, you're just denying yourself a chance at some fun, relaxation, and all those lovely hormones.

Answer 7

been there done that!! he will get mad before long . you are tired ? well he is tired too when he comes home after work - trying to make a good life for you and the baby . Is he a good provider ? does he stay at home with his family on the weekend and at night ?If so he shouldn't have to go without it or get down on his knees and beg for it .we all have to make sacrifices now and then and accommodate our partner.

Answer 8

Men are so ungrateful they don't know how hard it is to take care of the kids all day.

Answer 9

Such a very common problem you are having.  Try suggesting some things to your husband that he can do with baby and/or around the house to help lighten your load and perhaps this will help with your energy level alittle bit.  

Good luck!!!