So I have been umming and arring for ages where I should pose this question: here goes.
I have been with my boyfriend (now fiance!) for almost 6 years. I was sexually active with one other guy, briefly.
I have never had a o****m (ek!). I have literally tried everything I can think of! I have even been to a GP to get checked out. I wondered if I was broken or missing bits. Apparently everything is where it should be.
I used to be very in to the sexual side of my relashionship and worked hard at it! ha ha. At times my boyfriend just wasn't really in to it.
We have talked about it. Although my interest in s*x is now none and i think it is much the same for him. For me, I think this is due to a) being a bit rejected by him a few times in the bedroom. b) never having a o****m. c) I find him a little selfish in the bed room at times and tends to rush through everything, and similar issues that he will only really give me a good 'pash' when it is in a sexual context. Which kinda erks me.
What to do what to do?? I love love love him. We have talked about it and tried new things, although we are now at a complete holt and have been for ages. Could we just be sexually incompatible?
We are going to get married which is so exciting, but I would really like just one o****m in my life time! ahaha
P.S. I am 27 and he is 29
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