Problems on the rise?

Question

my wife has joined a 24 hr fitness and now i find left on the computer web site like is he into you and other pick up question she has had some new tattoos done she is 59 years old we have been together for 17 years now and i think she is looking for a new man she is also distant and argumentative about every thing I'm thinking its time to leave her house and move on gut feeling

Answer 1

a little late for a mid-life crisis 59 wow  

Answer 2

well no matter what you feel in your gut, it might be right or wrong, but get your facts together first. make sure you know all the details. communication is the key too. sometimes you have to make them listen

Answer 3

Since I rely heavily on my intuition, you may be right.

If she's unwilling to talk with you about what's going on, leaving might be the right thing to do for yourself.

I don't often advocate that option - I prefer trying the counseling route - but, it takes two to make the marriage work.  Doesn't sound like she's got too much willingness there if she's become completely argumentative.

Though it may not be termed a "mid life crisis" , it could be hormonal if she's going  through menopause...seeing ones self as being "over the hill" can be somewhat daunting ~ believe me!

If she'll listen to you, suggest that she see her Dr.  S/he can determine how far into menopause your wife is with a simple blood test.  Possibly even prescribe something to level her hormones out!

Just my thoughts ~ best of everything to you!