Problems with getting an errection :(?

Question

Hi, I am an 18 year old male and I am a virgin. I ha vent started trying to have sexual relations till recently. In the past I ha vent had any problems with getting an erection through mast*******. But I have developed a new relationship with a new girlfriend and we have started trying to get sexual. The embarrassing this is that once we start making out and stripping off our clothes, try as hard as I can, I cant get a full erection hard enough for intercourse. I cant even develop a full erection through master****** anymore. This is very embarrassing and my girlfriend has been understanding so far but I dont her to get fed up and leave me. I am very confused whats going on and My question is, do u think that there is a serious problem with me and I need to take Viagra or something or do I need to get more sexual practice or what????

Answer 1

m********e less. and i do not believe viagra is needeed for an 18 year old

Answer 2

oh listen to me you are PERFECT really you are you are just uncomfortable ,you will be fine you need to relax and stop worrying and you will be fine i promise

Answer 3

Ask your Mother.

Answer 4

Well, have you been depressed lately? sometimes emotions can have an effect with that.  But i doubt an 18 year old will need viagra.

Answer 5

it's your first time lol

practices make perfect

Answer 6

It could be that you are accustomed to doing things on your own and now you have this other person and you don't know how to add her to the mix very well yet. It's very normal, and the more you can include her in what's going on, the better. She can help you get used to her being there and maybe you can show her how you "do it" to get it to shoot- she can use that information to make you feel good in the future and it may help during intercourse, for example, to know if you get off by slapping your balls or if that is a turn off for you. The other factor may be if you had religious or parental advise on when it was "ok" to have s*x. If you are feeling guilty for not being married or being young, or other psychological factors, then that can hinder an erection as well.

Answer 7

Lots and lots of men are nervous when they're getting sexual with their first partner (or in fact any new partner).  The nervousness makes it difficult to get hard enough.  

Just take it slowly and relax as much as you can.  Enjoy the feelings and don't focus on performance.  Eventually you will feel comfortable and relaxed and confident enough, and your p***s will do exactly what you want it to do!