Problems with my husbands family, one of them is a lech, any advice?

Question

Okay, My sister in law and husband visit our house regularly. I do not like it but accept it as he needs his family. The reason I dont like it is my sis in laws husband is one of those guys that looks at your chest, bum, legs, and lingers over it. I hate it as when we are together, he will lech at me, his wife will notice and see if I respond or he does anything. I then have him leching at me and her staring at me to see if I look back. My partner knows and he also does not know what to do about it. Any advice?

Answer 1

Your husband should just go over and say yeah that's nice en, I'm the luckiest b*****d in the world cause I get to share my whole life with that beautiful woman.  Now if you don't quite looking at her inappropriately I'm going to have to break your arms/legs etc.  Then he can kind of let out a bit of a laugh, the other guy will get the hint.  Best of luck.

Answer 2

Address it when you, your husband, sis n law and her husband are around.  Let them know that it bothers you when her husband continuously stares at your body parts.

Answer 3

Well the redneck thing to do would be for the husband to kick some ***. (not only because it offends you but to stand up for his sister)

However you and your husband do not sound like rednecks so my solution probably wont work so instead if the 2 do have to come over you can try wearing clothing that is no revealing (yes I know its not right) you can try mad dogging him or giving him a laxitive based treat so you dont have to deal with him most of the night. or you can try doing activities that dont give him a window to stare at you or that h**l lech other people, go to hooters 20 bucks says he wont be staring at you all night

Answer 4

You have to follow the chain of command. You tell your partner, your partner tells the sister, and the sister tells the husband to stop.

Should this fail for whatever reason, make excuses to be away from home when the sister visits.  

Answer 5

I have no clue what you mean by leching,,,,,, Either way, your husband needs to step up and be a man for his wife! This is his family so he should be the one to approach them and know how to do it best. He needs to sit down with his bro-in-law and explain that he notices him looking at you and it needs to stop right now or he will tell his sister about it. If that doesn't work, your husband needs to approach his sister and say the same thing or the bro-in-law will not be allowed anywhere around you. Plain and simple. No one should make you feel uncomfortable especially when your husband can control the situation!

Answer 6

tell the creapy guy 2 show some respect 4 u or stay away. u DON'T gotta take that kinda of sh*t! r u a hottie?