Problems with the family.

Question

When I was small my dad passed away. So my uncle began to treat me as his own. Im 15 and my boyfriend is 16. My mom has no problem with my boyfriend, she seems to like him, but my uncle he does not like him, i think it's because he's white my uncle is native american, in my family i was always taught that race was nothing, and that it was only a persons beliefs that mattered... but my uncle he seems to just really hate him. My mom is half white half black, my uncle has no problem with my mom's white family or her black. I always find my uncle always telling my cousin "chris" not to mess up the blood line, or somthing like that. I dont understand him, he has a baby by a white woman, but yet I cant date a white guy??? im so confused.Does my uncle sound racist, or am I just overreacting?...

Answer 1

maybe you should talk to your uncle, just ask him straight up why he doesn't like your bf

Answer 2

Is it because to have a boyfriend at 15 is way too young, and that he is worried about you ?  

I started to have a boyfriend when I was 15. Now, when I look back, it was just wasting the time that we should have put on my study.

Answer 3

dnt worry about what he says, tell him that if he has a baby by a white woman, then it should be fine for u to juss have a white bf. tell him that ur the one dating the boy and that its your choice of if u should date him or not

hope i helped! =]

Answer 4

If you don't live with your uncle then ignore all this.  Your mom is the only one you should be concerned with.  Talk to her about this and have HER tell your uncle to butt out, it's none of his business.  Good luck.