Process of doing it for the first time?

Question

Just out of curiosity, How would a couple settle into having s*x for the first time? Is there a process or it is just natural? How would they know if it is "that time or that moment"?

If it is natural, how? Any feelings come up all of a sudden? Does someone ask?

How about kissing?

Answer 1

It's natural. If you need to ask, then it obviously isn't.

Answer 2

It IS definitely thing. If it feels awkward then it probably should not be happening.  By the time you have s*x with someone you should probably know them well enough to be able to tell that its ok if you put that move on them. I'm not saying go have s*x with your best friend! Talk to someone about it...a parent...a teacher...someone close to you.  Even though I have a human sexuality major I feel like your parents should be the one telling you about this...after all they must know something about it...you're here :D

As far as kissing goes lol just pay attention you'll know when she wants to kiss you.  Dont force it though! never force anything! :D just be patient and everything will take its course.  

But like I said ask your parents or a teacher...they will be able to help you alot easier than anyone on here. I know its going to be uncomfortable but I would want my children to ask me and be informed correctly than be informed by some strange person on the internet! :D