Hi,
My key worker told me that in a "relationship" such as ours there should be no emotional involvement. That she isn't supposed to be emotionally involved in my case and that I shouldn't be emotionally involved or attached to her, that she's just there to offload to really. Ihave been seeing her for under a year. My question is how can they turn around and say they 'care' without being emotionally involved? And when you ask that you usually will get a stupid answer like "i care on a professional level"...in my books you either care or you don't.
I understand there have to be boundaries but to say to a client who is meant to trust you and talk about personal things that you aren't emotionally involved in the case...seems quiet hard, cold and hurtfull. I mean hey i don't expect this person to be my best friend - nothing of the sort but how am i supposed to believe that they care at all? Or do I not believe that either?
I feel like these stupid rules are set up by someone who hasn't got a clue. How do you work with humans on their emotions and problems and try to help them through it without any emotion? It doesn't make sense.
So basically to all professionals each client is an object or a number? another hour until payday?
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