Psychic when will me and my future husband going to move in to a house? i don't have a husband right now

Question

i'm just curious, are we going to stay with his family, until we have our family or stay with mine?

Answer 1

Before you ever decide to marry a guy I would hope that you would already have your living arrangements all planned out. Maybe you and your future husband will not be able to purchase your own home at that point in your lives, but renting your own place isn't out of the question. I'm not saying that staying with family is necessarily a bad thing, but when you are a newly married couple and having to share living quarters with others, the lack of privacy and the likeliness of family members meddling in your relationship can be detrimental to a marriage. Especially during the first couple of years when a marriage is the hardest.

I suggest lining this all out before committing yourself to marriage. Have a long engagement if you have to, but get yourselves a place of your own before you marry. If you marry and live with family (either his or yours), it will make your marriage harder on you both. You'll be indebted to whomever you are living with, regardless of what either of you contribute. You won't have the privacy or the sense of freedom that a married couple needs. If a conflict were to arise between you and your husband it could--and most likely will--cause tension between you two (or even you two and the family) because of the number of people living under one roof and the chances of others getting involved in the conflict.

If you are both not able to support yourselves financially BEFORE marrying, this does not bode well for your marriage. Financial woes are one of many reasons why marriages fail. Living with one of your family's is only going to make yourselves dependent on the family when you should be dependent on each other. When you both decide to have a family of your own and start having children, you'll realize that getting out on your own is a lot harder than you had initially thought if you live with family.

So before you EVER think about getting married, get all of these details lined out. If you can't buy your own home, rent yourselves a place. That way you have a place of your own, the privacy you need, and you can let your marriage run its course without any outside interference.

Answer 2

your going to  marry a guy with out his own home? or apt? and still lives with his parents? he obviously cant take care of himself how an he take care of you and a family?

Answer 3

You don't have a husband right now, but you're looking to know when you'lll move in with one?  Do you have a boyfriend at least?  

Answer 4

Hmm...

You will never move into a house. You will marry a bum off the street at the courthouse, and live with him in his cardboard box in the park.