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Psychics what lies in store for my abusive mother?

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I had an eating disorder for 6 years. She was angry at me for embarassing her and refused to take me to a doctor. She also told me I was a worthless piece of **** everyday and hated me, refused to love me because I was 20 pounds overweight. She cried when she saw skinny girls because she wanted her daughter to be beautiful and popular, and tells my dad taht she regrets the day that I was born. I believe in Karma, my friend had an abusive father and now he has a chronic skin disease, that hurts him so bad he can't even go to work everyday. Will anthing like that happen to my mother? I don't hate her, however I don't think she deserves to live.

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  1. I think you should just pray for her.

    Usually bad things happen to people who need a wakeup call, so unless she changes it is kind of likely that something bad MAY very well happen to her.

    DO NOT hope for it though.


  2. There is no karma.  She probably won't amount to much because she sounds like a loser.  Usually losers stay losers.  Eventually, she'll die. Everyone does.  It's not because of doing "bad" things.  You sound like a little wimp, though.  Get over it and live your life.  If you blame her and hate her for everything, then you'll never take responsibility for yourself.  You'll be a loser, which just makes her right.

  3. Yeah  your mom sounds quite similar to mine. Though I left the day after I graduated H.S., she stayed with me for several years (not physically all those negatives). Years later I cut her out of my life totally when she abused my son over the phone and my father too for allowing things to happen.  I had to realize that it wasn't me and had nothing to do with me. Though I never thought so much of  karma I have always held the believe that we will be accountable for all that we do. Not always in this lifetime but  I don't believe we get away with anything.  Do not poison your mind by wishing her the worst use your energy to do the best that you can do. One day you will look back  and say to yourself despite my upbringing  I did really well with myself. Peace and good luck to you.

  4. Firstly thats not how karma works (or supposedly works)

    Secondly - you need to move on with your life, no amount of retribution will ever compensate for what you have been through and your life will be ruined by misery. Just try and let go for your own good - or play the victim forever, your choice

  5. What is in store for your mother, is you are going to move on with your life, you are going to become successful, happy, and probably have nothing more to do with her.  Then she is going to kick herself for all the time she is going to miss out on being in your life.  Forgive her, and remember that forgiveness is for you, so that you don't carry all that hate and bitterness around inside you.  But remember, forgiving doesn't mean you have to let them back into your life.

  6. She will live, Karma does not kill. But it does work in ways that cam harm a wrongdoer. What she did to you is wrong very wrong, but karma chooses when to strike by itself.

    Now think of this: If you are a firm beiliever in Karma then wouldn't wishing your mother ill or worse, bring some bad Karma YOUR way?

  7. nothing because you have to do something besides hope something will happen and im not saying for you to hurt her well maby with the same words she hurting you with but other than that tell someone

  8. It doesn't take a psychic to figure this one out, dear.  Karma will catch up with your mother, but not likely in the way you think or would like it to.  

    How she treated you was absolutely wrong.  You weren't the only one who needed a doctor - your mother has some serious psychological problems, and unfortunately, she messed up your mind too.  

    If you haven't done so yet, please seek professional counseling and maybe even a support group to help work out the self-esteem issues and anger your mother has caused you.  You need to let go of your concern about what's in store for your mother, and concentrate on what's in store for you.  

    Emotional abuse often times scars worse than physical abuse - those are the wounds that are harder to heal, because they are not easily visible.  And statistically, the abused often becomes the abuser later in life.  (I would guess your mom was never "good enough" for her mom growing up.)  

    You need to get some help now sweetie.  Don't follow in the same footsteps as your mom.

    Blessings.

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