Puberty and lazyness is a factor that causes me to going down the road of messing up my future. Help?

Question

See, i was a high honor roll student all my life until i reached highschool &puberty is starting to hit (i hate it sooo much!!! i abhor puberty with a passion, im starting to want to have s*x with girls, starting to become apethetic, &become lazy)

anyways, my main reason 4asking this question is that i am starting 2become "less innocent" &i am thinking about skipping classes and am talking 2girls and my grades are dropping significantly (for example my science grade first term was 80, 2nd was 79, 3rd- this current marking period- is a 45. But i have incompleted work that i have not done that i need 2hand in 2get those points back)

2shorten this. I am becoming like this guy, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

(except i have never seen a drug, smoked or done anything like that. I am nothing like that. But i need 2stay away from being like that and thats why i need your input on how 2stay on the right track)

Answer 1

Okay, first of all, don't blame puberty for you becoming lazy. That's just you becoming lazy.

If you want to stop being lazy and work...do it. Just remember that your future does depend on whether you play Halo 3 or do that science project that's due tomorrow. Just get it done. There's no reason for you to start not doing your schoolwork just because you're getting older.

Answer 2

look I know that you are confused and tired and most likely scared about your future. what you need to try to understand is that the habits you are developing now will be the habits you carry into adult hood. I dont think that you are lazy you are tired. kids your age need more sleep... so get it when you can.  life does not get ant easier when you become an adult... the more effort you put into your education now the easier it will be to be the kind of person that people respect.  as for who you think about having s*x with... who cares .. really the only people that need to be concerned with your s*x life are you and the person (people) you are having s*x with... that said just keep thoughts ... thoughts..... and try not to worry too much about it. s*x will come in time and the older you are the better... now go to youtube and look up this up... everybodys free to wear sunscreen... by Baz lurhman.... I live by it...I only wish it had been written 20 years earlier..

Answer 3

It isnt laziness and/or puberty causing your problems, it is personal CHOICE and the lack of an adult parents foot up your butt that is casing the trouble.Tell your parents what you have told us, I'm sure a few good swift kicks to the rump will straighten out your thinking.