Puberty is like.........A TOTAL DRAG! (readdetails please)!?

Question

well im 11 and i have been going through puberty for 2 years now..........im fine with it but it just bothers me because i get soo horny sometimes and i have fantasies about dressing up in S****y little outfits giving my crushh lap dances, etc. but this bothers me soo bad i do like it but sometimes i have the fantasies during classes at school and i stare out the window when i have them and it messes up my concentration in school work. how do i deal with it? please help!

Answer 1

do it just go for the big thing and talk to him do what you need to do

Answer 2

I'm 11 as well, except I'm a guy. I have fanasties about screaming at the football players for getting the chicks, while my gang are geeks and we help all with hw. But the lap dancing... let's say your more sexually mature than I am.

Answer 3

why do you even know what a lap dance is????

Answer 4

I don't believe you !

Answer 5

You really can't do anything about it except ride that awful puberty wave out....

Answer 6

OMG this same exact thing happens to me 24/7. I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO DEAL WITH IT.

good luck....

but just so you know, im 14 now and i STILL havent gotten over it. it really sucks.

Answer 7

ask your mom or females for advice

Answer 8

MASTERBATION!

Answer 9

OMG!  My daughter is 10 and just starting puberty.  I honestly didn't realize she could be having thoughts like this so soon.  Nothing wrong with it though, don't get me wrong.  Perfectly normal.  You just made me realize it's probably time for a more in depth talk about the birds and the bees and all those crazy feelings.  I'd advize you to talk to a parent.  We've been there and we understand alot more than you think.

Answer 10

Ah- good ol' puberty! Totally kidding. Good things happen during puberty, but bad stuff happens too. Your thoughts are normal though, so don't worry!

When you get those thoughts during school, try your hardest to bring yourself back to the classroom. Or, imagine if everyone could know what you were thinking at that moment. Wouldn't that be embarrassing???