Pulling out during s*x? Does anyone have any tips for doing so?

Question

See, me and my girlfriend which we are both 19.. are wanting to have intercourse. And she doesnt want me using a condom.. so Im wanting to pull out... Can you tell before you are about to o****m.. or does it sneak up on you?

Answer 1

no dont work that way, you can have precum beforehand and she will still risk pregnancy

use some type of birth control, if not then you cant know

Answer 2

Yeah I tried that technique, I didn't take birth control as good as I should of, I'm allergic to latex, I'm raising a baby and pregnant with the next.  I'd suggest ANY form of birth control, I'm married so it's not that big of a concern but, for you, it is

Answer 3

In the heat of passion, pulling out is not as easy as it sounds. It's also not a good birth control method. If you're not wanting any children in the near future, one of you (if not both of you) needs to be using some type of birth control.

Answer 4

Well the technical term " withdrawal"  is the worst form of birth control.  Agree it's been practiced since..... well biblical times because it's actually in their... actually mentioned in Genesis 38:9... Onan spilled his seat in the get really pissed off.... many preachers interpreted this as masturbation... but of course it was just that early form of I don't feel like getting my brother's wife pregnant (ya that was who is was doing).   A small number of sperm can escape any time even when you first get an erection so no time is a good time.   Your girlfriend saying she doesn't want you to wear a condom for me is a huge red flag..... anyone who says this either wants to trap you with the pregnancy or is using you can possibly get pregnant.  

As for anyone allergic to latex condoms they do make silicone ones just for this purpose that's not an excuse anymore.  

Part of you question can you tell before you about the o****m or doesn't sneak up on you.... certainly a little bit of both can happen. If your girlfriend is really oppose the condoms than she needs to be on the pill or get the birth-control shot (works for many months and you don't have to remember  to take a pill).  

You need to ask her more important question as to why she doesn't want you to use a condom.  

AdviceMan

Answer 5

You are 19 and don't know what an o****m feels like?  If you want to get her pregnant, try pulling out, you ar only playing the odds.  Remember, it only takes ones sperm.  If you have repeated s*x, there is still sperm in your urethra.

Answer 6

There is NO way to do this without risking your health or possible pregnancy. There simply isn't.

That said, I'm going to give you a rough idea of what I told my nephew, who was just 18 at the time, what I found out when he asked me pretty much this same exact question.

Sperm cells live in the tubes between "testes and tissue paper" for approx. 72 hours. So literally, if you've masturbated within 72 hours, even if you don't ejaculate, you can still risk pregnancy. So, if you simply must follow through on this, do not do ANYTHING for 72 hours prior, even a wet dream counts.

Nextly, (hehe, making up my own words today) unless either of you have shown signs of an allergy, please, PLEASE go down to the local pharmacy and pick up a spermicide. That will at least help cut down the risk you'd both be taking.

And last but not least, unless you're both joined at the hip, and have *both* been STD tested at least six full months after having been with anyone, do not take this risk. In all seriousness, it is not worth it. And if you must take the risk, be responsible about it.

Answer 7

It depends. If you m********e a good number of times, you'll eventually learn how to control it and when it will come. But if you don't, it will sneak up on you. Besides what's wrong with a condom? Its safe s*x! You'll have a better chance at stopping pregnancy with a condom than pulling out.  

Answer 8

do you talk with your husband when you have s*x?

yes ...if he phone me...smile just a joke ..about you question...ur partner can use the barrel facility , how ? I will teach you...you must stand on a non-stable barrel , when you begin to o****m she must cick the barrel...try it