Pulling the plug on hubbys grandma should i go to the funeral?

Question

we have issues in our marriage and i feel like he should take our 12 yr old and go. i do not do very well at funerals i believe they are a long drawn out process that prolongs the agony of losing a family member. i want to be there for him but im still hurt and angry at him. we are working on it but i just dont want to go.

Answer 1

I think this is a time for you to put you differences aside...you should go with him and give him the support he will need...if you are both working on your issues...then this is something you can do that will help you both.

Answer 2

If you are working on your issues then definitely go and comfort him. Put aside your personal preferences and be with him in the time of need.  

Answer 3

you are married to him so as a wife you should be there  for him no matter what. you have bonded with him and this goes with respecting him.

Answer 4

ask him what he would prefer. if he would like you to go, then take separate cars, that way you can leave after you pay your respects.