Ok, I need a little advice. My husband's father lives out of state and wants to make a visit to see us. And when I say "us" I really mean my husband. Every single time he has came to visit, he pays absolutely no mind to me or our daughter, even though he says he's coming to see his grandaughter. Anyway, it's my husband's dad so I try to make the best of his visits and remember it's only for a few days. Well he asked in late August if he could come in September. Well this month is EXTREMELY busy for us. I'm having all 4 wisdom teeth out next week, my mother is having serious brain surgery the week after. My daughter has doctor's appointments and on top of all of that, we are completely broke so my husband can't take any time off. We told him all of this and explained that October would be much better for us. He threw a little fit, but we thought we had gotten through to him. Well he left a message last night saying that he'll be on this side of the country next week and wants to come for a visit then. I am so extremely frustrated with him because he does this sort of thing all the time. I have a feeling that even if we tell him no, he'll show up anyway. I cannot deal with entertaining him while my husband is at work 6 days a week, AND recover from my wisdom tooth surgery AND be there for my mother after her surgery. Any advice??
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