Pyschological effect of love

Question

4 months back,i was used (financially and emotionally) by a married woman who came to take revenge on me because two yeas back i refused to marry with her.

she first made me fall for her...than she used me and then she abused me and said byeforever.

i wanted to love with her...and make s*x with her...but i was failed.

i know you will all say that i deserve it because i got involved with a married woman.

anyway,its been almost 4 months of no heal....i feel alot of angry..

i loved her...i was emotionally attached with her.

is there anyway i could forget my horrible abusing past.

somewhere in my heat i feel that one day she will come to me and say sorry for all her messed with my brain.

she is in my mind 24/7 and iam obssesed..i feel miserable.

iin this condition iam not able to marry or do anything.

iam deeply hurt

it seems i wanna talk to her one last time in order to move on.

is there anyway i forget her completely

Answer 1

This user has posted the same question more than 100 times under the profile names Blue B, juggler489, khangxyz786, sahir k, and extreme_feelings206.

Occasionally, he even posts answers to his own questions under different usernames.  

He has indicated an intent to perform illegal activities including but not limited to stalking and blackmail.

Answer 2

The main problem is with your imagination,try to think about her less like as you say 24/7 make it 23/7 and reduce as time goes by.

On the other hand you certainly had reasons not to marry her so why go back track on your decisions.

You probably need to fight positively by looking for someone to fall in love with.I am almost certain that you ain't seeing anyone or you are not happy with whomever you are with so get someone to give your heart to fully.  

Answer 3

My goodness, you sound like a guy who I thought was in love with me but he was married (separated from his wife for over a year). He thought of me all the time and invited me to see him. Then I realized I loved him. Even though he was not living with his wife and would not go back to her, he could not promise me anything. We were both confused. I still care for him but I have not heard from him in 5 months and do not know why he refuses to write. However, I have put it behind me.

What I do not understand is why you did not marry this woman if you loved her. Of course, you feel angry. I was hurt many years ago by a man who was emotionally abusive. It was not until  met the man I described about that I felt really good again. For that, I am grateful.  

We cannot always help who we fall in love with. Sometimes we are easily seduced by others, especially when they pay attention to us. It is hard to forget people who have hurt us. We feel rage, disappointment, pain and confusion. You need to try to meet other ladies. You might meet someone wonderful who appreciates you and then you will be able to move on.

Good luck.

Answer 4

you have asked 62 questions and almost all of them are saying the same thing.

you must move on and  it looks like you need help to do so. talk to your doctor who can recommend you to a good therapist.

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