Pyschological love effect?

Question

4 months back,i was left used (financially and emotionally) by a married woman who came to take revenge on me because two yeas back i refused to marry with her.(she was purposing me on phone without meeting me).

she first made me fall for her...than she used me and then she abused me and said byeforever.

i wanted to love with her...and make s*x with her...but i was failed.

i know you will all say that i deserve it because i got involved with a married woman.

anyway,its been almost 4 months of no heal....i feel alot of angry..

i loved her...i was emotionally attached with her.

is there anyway i could forget my horrible abusing past.

somewhere in my heat i feel that one day she will come to me and say sorry for all her messed with my brain.

she is in my mind 24/7 and iam obssesed..i feel miserable.

iin this condition iam not able to marry or do anything.

iam deeply hurt

it seems i wanna talk to her one last time in order to move on.

is there anyway i forget her completely

Answer 1

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Answer 2

The only way to proceed in your life is to come to acceptance about the situation. You can't change the past, but you can decide how you are going to proceed in the future. If you continue to be obsessive and repetitive over what has happened, you are wasting time that you could be living to the fullest in the present.

I realize you want to get over this and you feel that she may come back and say sorry for what has happened, but you cannot expect that to happen. You cannot control anyone but yourself. It is best to just accept what has happened, learn from past mistakes and look to your present and future.