Q for girls, Is more appealing to you for males to be, or not to be a virgin?

Question

I am a 19 year old male and I am looking for a serious relationship with someone I can fall in love with. I am currently a virgin and there is a girl at my work who wants to fool around with, nothing serious in terms of a relationship, but she wants to have some sexual fun. I could care less if I was a virgin or not, but I want to make myself as appealing as possible so I stand the best chance of meeting that special someone who I can start a serious long term relationship and fall in love with. My question is, should I try to lose my virginity now so that I will be experienced when I meet that special someone, or should I remain a virgin until I meet them? Girls, advice please?

Answer 1

stay a virgin  

Answer 2

Not a virgin a girl doesn't want a man who has no experience. I'm not sayin go out & have s*x with everyone but 2 or 3 ppl wouldnt hurt anything just make sure they're clean.

Answer 3

to be a virgin

Answer 4

It is more appealing to me, personally, if they aren't a virgin.

Answer 5

You should be committed to the girl you want to have s*x with, im a male virgin too looking for the right girl.

Answer 6

I would love to meet a guy who is a virgin!!! do what u feel comfortable doin. Dont lose ur virginity just to do it. I think u should do it when u want to, when u meet someone special so u dont end up regreting it. But like i said its ur choice do it when U want to!

Answer 7

Have some fun, you are only 19. What if you did meet the girl of your dreams, now? wouldn't you be glad that you had a little fun before committing yourself for the rest of your life! That is a very long time.  

Answer 8

i THiNK iTS BETTER FOR U TO BE A ViRGiN BECAUSE GUYS USUALLY TEND TO ALLWAYS TALK ABOUT s*x {{NOT ViRGiNS}}

AND iT GETS GiRLS MAD TRUST ME LOL SO YEA BETTER iF ViRGiN

BUT ALSO DONT LiE

Answer 9

i would wait till you meet that one you will marry. wish i'd have.

Answer 10

LOLOLOLOLOOOLOLOLOL.

Do I HAVETO be honest? 8D

Fine, fine.

Well, I detest sexism -- but since she`s willing to, go for it.

I think guys with experience is TOTALLY hott. Because, you may tell her you`re a virgin, but then if you do it for the first time and you suck -- you`re gonna have a really bad rep. So, I advice taking that girl who`s throwing herself at you because you may learn from it.

(ASLONGASSHEREALLYISN`TLOOKINGFORANYTH...



Experience is s**y.

Answer 11

ok lol im a girl and my opinion is that a guy whose a virgin is HOTT! cause if hes not then to me its like hes used up, u know what i mean?im a virgin too and trust me i would like a guy to be new to the game too so that wed learn together in a serious relationship. usually the girls searching for something serious are the ones who prefer virgins. its true cause i used to have a crush on a guy who was also a virgin. we had a long history but one day after we hadn't spoken for a while, i found out that he lost his virginity to some w***e and from then on he was no longer appealing to me.  

Answer 12

virgin. just think that not only are they sleeping with you but everyone else you slept with.

its like skittles. you would only want to eat skittles no one else has eaten. but if someone else has started chewing them, spits them out and hands them to you-would you want those skittles? not me.

Answer 13

im a girl, and i am waiting until marriage to have s*x.

i think it would be romantic if the guy was a virgin too, and we could experience the first time together.

Answer 14

i'm 17 and would like a vergin 17-22 guy.......it's just my opinion

pleaze answer mine ...........http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...

Answer 15

Stay a virigin, because it will help you better find that special girl. If esp. a guy from a grls point of view saves it until they fall in love, it shows how much of a real person you are, and the one's who don't accept it easily are weeded out from wether they're just looking for s*x or something long lasting.

Answer 16

Personally I like a guy with some experience, so he can do exactly the right things. On the other hand my best friend prefers her men virgins so she can teach them a thing or two.

I think if you only sleep with one girl for some experience before the girl you love then thats fine, any girl should be cool with that unless shes young and immature.

But don't w***e yourself out.

best of luck.

Answer 17

get some experience  it is always better when you know what u are doing...besides you need to get laid u dont know what your missing ;)

Answer 18

I would be put off if a guy had s*x just because he was in a race to lose his virginity.  At the least, I would hope that the person isn't ridiculously promiscuous.  I mean, if it happens, it happens, but don't do it with a prostitute (not that I can really tell you or anyone else what to do) just so you can say that you've had s*x.  It's weird, I'm actually not sure what my girl friends think about this, but I know guys who would be turned off if their girlfriend wasn't a virgin.  And regarding the experience thing...why couldn't you just practice with the person who is important to you when you do meet them?  Just wondering.  

Answer 19

If you want a respectable, loving and dignified 'special woman' - they tend to prefer men who are virgins. Not just because it's less chance of contracting STD's but it also gives us a good indication that you'll be faithful to one woman. I think you should remain a virgin and save if for that special someone. Don't you think it'd be just so much more special if you had s*x for the first time with the woman of your dreams?

It's up to you. Good luck :)