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Question

Real quick. I dropped one of my daughters off at her Dad's tonight to spend the night. She and her sisters get to the door before me and barge right in. I get to the door and he holds it open but blocks me from coming all the way in. A "friend" is standing there (a girl my daughters have met numerous times) and says hello to me but my ex doesn't introduce us. He's spent a lot of time telling me he wants to get back together (I don't) and has also told me he has no interest in this "friend" (not physically attracted, she's too loud, etc.) but now I'm wondering if there's more going on than he wanted me to know and I busted him. It definitely made me even less trusting of his intentions of getting back together. Am I jumping to conclusions or should I go with my gut?

Answer 1

Go with your gut feeling as it is always correct.

Answer 2

You don't want him so trust your gut.  He has someone else and as long as she is not abusive to your children, let him go.  He wasn't worth keeping and if he is lying you don't want him.

Answer 3

Listen to your gut instincts.....they are usually right...

Answer 4

I always go with my gut. You know him better than we do so if you're getting that vibe best to trust it.

Answer 5

Ex's are normally ex's for a reason.................trust your gut

Answer 6

Since you don't want to get back together with him then why would you care??  If he is in a relationship with her and lied to you about it claiming he wanted you then just be glad you didn't fall for his B.S.

Answer 7

The gut, the gut,  the gut, cuz he's a butt,  a butt,  a butt....

Sounds like your ex and my ex should get together and compare notes.

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Answer 8

Apparently "Tarzan" doesn't wanna let go of this vine until he gets a hold of the one he's reaching for. It wouldn't surprise me if he's seeking comfort in her. But as to HOW comfortable he's getting, you should be able to see it... maybe that's why he didn't want you to see them together.

Answer 9

just be done with him. All he is now is your kids dad. As long as the kids are happy and there are no major problems let it be.  

Answer 10

he wants his cake and to eat it too, dont be blind or stupid, Walk away quickly....