QUESTION FOR GUYS!!! My friend needs help!!?

Question

Hey all, ok so my friend (who is right next to me) thinks she is undateable and that NO ONE will date her. Sorry but this is a question for guys...unless you are a girl and want to answer.

Would you date a person like this or not?

Here is a description:

She is asian (thats not that important).

She is shy around guys...so if you went on a date with her she wouldn't talk much.

She has naturally puffy hair that is wavy.

She is really funny and sensitive...but usually doesn't show it cause she is shy.

She is NOT good at sports...mostly running.

She is not really skinny but NOT fat. She's normal...

She is medium tall...you know what i mean?

She can sing really good and loves to draw anime.

She's pretty too but she doesn't think so. :P

Do you think guys would date her? She says that NO guy in the WORLD would like her. But that's not true right?

Please answer. Just write a simple yes or no and if you added WHY we would give you 10 points. PLease make her feel good about herself. :)) thanks all!!!

Answer 1

She sounds nice enough. I seriously believe that anyone can find someone to date. And not just "pity dates," but real, "I like you, you like me" dates. Maybe what she has to do is try to open up a little. You know, not be so shy. Or try to go out with someone you're a little more comfortable with, like someone who is already a friend. Just don't give up, maybe it will take a little longer than you would like, but you definately can find someone.

Answer 2

a lot of guys, including myself, go straight for looks - it's not so much about being shallow, it's just that we don't really know anything about people before actually meeting them. From what you've said, though, your friend is pretty and has a good personality - the only problem is, how are guys supposed to know these things if she's too shy around them to show off her stuff - I understand how hard it is being shy around the opposite s*x (i'm shy too), but that's the only way they're going to know who you are.

If she's looking for someone with similar interests to her, tell her to sing out loud more and to draw her anime in public - this way, guys will notice her talents, and if they also like anime, they'll have something to discuss.

tell her not to sell herself short and date ANY guy, everyone deserves better

so just open up a bit more, and good luck =)

Answer 3

maybe

Answer 4

if i were a guy i might.  dont go looking in the popular/football crowd but there r PLENTY of nice guys that would like to date her

Answer 5

Difficult to say without knowing the real person but :

Yes, i think i would.

If one is shy at first, fine - first date a movie, no need to talk much.

Being pretty isn`t THE standard men judge by - personality / character is much more important. (of course, it`s a bonus if a sweet and sunny personality came giftwrapped in a pretty package)

Personally - i don`t mind a shy person, as long as she is willing to make the effort to get to know me - and thus working on slowly letting go of this shy-ness towards me.

Drawing Anime might make me jealous, but at least she wouldn`t mind me watching the cartoons. If nothing else i could claim i`m trying to give her inspiration :)

Problem now is - she`s probably in the US, and relatively young.

I`m in The netherlands, and almost antique.

So you are going to have to find another lucky man.

Answer 6

I would date her. I don't talk much either but I could bring the outgoing side out of her. Asian girls usually are beautiful and exotic-lookin. Funny girls have a good sense of humor and it's easy to make them laugh, I like this in a girl because it makes me happy. We opposite with the sports but she seems athletic, a plus. I like a girl that can sing because I love music and I sing too. I also watch Anime and I draw Anime too, I love Anime (shonen to be specific). I'm 17. How old is she?

Answer 7

Yes

Im not being a L*****n or anything coz im 100% straight

she sounds pretty but i think its just because shes shy

and a boy likes confidence and talkative girls

hope it helps u

Answer 8

If she was in my age range yes I would.

I've got a soft spot for asian women and I know a lot of guys and girls just like me.

The shy thing would kinda bug me. I would make me think she wasn't interested. Though hopefully as she gets comfortable with a guy her tongue loosens up a bit.

Humor means a lot in a relationship, and so does sensitivity.

I'm not really great a sports either. I do like to run though. Still I run by myself mostly so meh. Not all guys are hard into sports so this really isn't much against her.

Body type is completely dependent on the guy. I don't really have a body type that appeals to me most. I prefer a girl to have a healthy body, but not skinny.

Medium tall? What is that? Like 5' - 5'3"? Height is another of those dependent on the guy things. I'm 6'3" so I prefer to get with a girl that at least 5'5", though i'm not overly picky about it.

I love music and a girl with a good singing voice is special to me. Also the talent to draw is unique.

The no self confidence thing is kind of a downer.