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Qualities in a bf that you would want in a husband?

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What are those qualities? thank you! I'm not talking abuot s*x [we have to be sexually compatible bs], i'm not talking about looks [he has to be hot bs]...I'm talking about real values.

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I think family values is really important in a boyfriend. If they care for their family a lot and respect elders, as in grandparents or parents, etc, that would be a great husband.
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Can you really talk?  Life has ups and downs and if you can't talk, you won't make it.

Does he care more for you than anything else?  If anything else comes first, you'll have a miserable life feeling second best.

Is he determined/hard worker?  If he has no work ethic, you'll be left making the money and fixing the problems.

Is he reasonable?  If he's too stubborn, he won't listen to reason, and you might end up stuck living with his bad decisions.
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A man that can cook and clean!
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the rule of thumb is "never marry a man you love, marry a man you respect love will always follow."
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Honesty, Integrity, trustworthy, caring, kind, romantic, gentle, manogamus, faithful, humourous.

To me that is what i look for, if he has any other qualities, like looks, fab in bed then that is a bonus, because when you are old, and you are both at home and you have had many years together, s*x and looks are not top priority its all those other things.

There are different qualities that are essential to each and every person x
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Big ones are honesty and trust. If he cant be honest with you, then you cant trust him, which leads to nothing but a broken relationship. Good communication, you want someone that you can open up to and you want him to share his feelings to. You dont want someone that cant ever share there feelings because then you never know what is going on with them. Protective, you dont want some to over protective but you do want someone that you feel safe with, and some one that will be there for you. Hope this helped.
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A man that cares about your whole well being. Making you happy before himself. If he'd rather watch sports then to go to a wedding with you then it's something to consider!
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Honest and forthright

Witty and funny

thoughtful

progressive

Values my opinions

Compromises

Communication

Adventurous but not extreme

Likes the outdoors

Intelligent

Faithful

Keeps me on my toes

More than meets the eye (ie: jock that writes poetry)

I'm pretty sure all these qualities don't exist in one man, but hey -- a girl can dream.
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Just to name a few...

Kind hearted

Responsible financially and emotionally

Good moral values

Respectful of others including me

A good work ethic

Christian

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A man that I feel I can share all my thoughts and secrets with a man who is like my best friend. (That's my husband).
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he has to be

funny

romantic

kind

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Honesty, dependability, willingness to communicate, ambition, moral standards, ability to control anger, not addicted to drugs, alcohol, gambling or p**n, good sense of humor--that's asking a lot, I know.
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well like someone that will listen to you not just say uh huh..

someone that will help around the house if you need it..

if you want a bigger family,someone who is good with kids.

someone that wont hit you..

someone that will be there for you when you need him.

someone that is loyal.

has a job.

someone that will just be good to you and love you tha way you deserve..
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he has to be a driven person, someone who wants to go somewhere in there life. they are a real man not one of those people who think there a real man bc they work but a man who doesnt hit, talk poorly about you, and if it comes down to it, will take care of you no matter what.
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Smart!!!

If you can't carry on a conversation for more than two minutes about anything other then a football game or his car. Move on.

Considerate, thoughtful, nice, funny. There are so many.

How he treats other people like waiters, children, HIS mom, etc. is a good indicator as to the type of person he is.
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Has to want children.

Needs to respect my opinions and feelings.

Needs to be able to support me emotionally (good times and bad).

Needs to be motivated to do something with their life.

Be Funny.

Likes adventure.
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