I am 16 years old but I consider myself to be quite mature for my age. Recently my boyfriend and I have been discussing plans of engagement. He is quite a few years older than me so I'm sure he knows what he wants. I, on the other hand have years of growing up to do, and although I see it as highly unlikely that my views of and love for him will change, there is always that possibility. One of the major problems with our relationship is that it is mandatory that it is kept a secret, for many different reasons. Therefore, my parents do not know about him and would be kept out of plans for engagement until we are ready to wed. I am a little nervous that somewhere along the line, things will go sour and I will have spent years of my teenage life engaged. I am in a tough situation and I'm not sure if it would be best to just keep things as they are or to go ahead with the engagement. We are truly happy together and experience feelings for each in which we feel could not be found else where.
What are your opinions?
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