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Question

My boyfriend and I (we both are 26) have been together 16 months and we have been renting together the last 4 months, we have been through so many bad fights but still remain together and get through it getting closer each time, he does cute little things like sending me a text when we are both working during the say to say he loves and misses me, he this morning left me a note so when I got up I could see it saying he will be thinking of me today and loves me..

Things like this are they a discription of a guy that really is in love as im sure its over the infatuatuon period?

He tells me I am all he has ever wanted and i am insecure so have to question him alot..

Heeling all this in mind pls answer my question above?

Answer 1

He sounds lovely, believe and trust his love.  

Answer 2

Have confidence, a bit, in your feelings. Judge by what you see.

Answer 3

i think that it means that he really does love you and that he is just leaving little i love you notes to let you know! i dont think it means anything else! i wish my boyfriend would do it more offten! like you i am also insecure so i question a lot to but then he just tells me the same thing that he loves me and that he thinks im the best looking and sweetest girl he has ever met! so i think your ok girl! do you leave him sweet little notes and things...if you dont he will like that!

God bless! hope things work out for you!

Answer 4

Evs. Please stop spending your time on here and get yourself a good psychologist. Sweetie, you need help.

Answer 5

I think that he genuinely has feelings for you. If you are having some bad fights, you have not stated has to why your having these fights.  You did however state that they are bringing you closer together and that tells me that your relationship is growing and that just maybe since its been 16 months that you are still learning each others wants, needs, likes, and dislikes.  And that simply speaking is love, and for him to text you and leave you notes, stating how he will miss you and how he loves you tells me also that he's there for more than just the coffee so to speak.  good luck and if the feelings are mutual than you need to start showing him your feelings also.