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My boyfriend and I (we both are 26) have been together 16 months and we have been renting together the last 4 months, we have been through so many bad fights but still remain together and get through it getting closer each time, he does cute little things like sending me a text when we are both working during the say to say he loves and misses me, he this morning left me a note so when I got up I could see it saying he will be thinking of me today and loves me..

Things like this are they a discription of a guy that really is in love as im sure its over the infatuatuon period?

He tells me I am all he has ever wanted and i am insecure so have to question him alot..

Heeling all this in mind pls answer my question above?

Answer 1

I dont know the ins and outs of your relationship.

But generally speaking, insecurity is not an attractive quality in a partner, and in time your partner may tire of always having to reassure you. Unless of course, he is an emotional protector and enjoys that role... but even then, he is more in control of the relationship than you are. Im not saying this to be mean; Im just saying that if you could grow stronger within yourself, you wouldnt have to question the relationship because you would know.  

Answer 2

Hate to tell you - you are not suited.  He sounds like he gets up to emotional blackmail - be warned.

Answer 3

why dont you ask him, if your that close then surely you have no problem talking togheter

this way you can learn to understand and know him

Answer 4

How many times do I have to answer this question? Sure, you updated it a little since the last five hundred along this same vein. This time you didn't bring up all your insecurities that leech at your relationship, or how he puts up with every one of them, and cares for and about you. or how despite it all, you still doubt him. Here's the thing, sweetie, YOU don't love HIM, but HE--gathering from your last 500 questions--loves YOU. Grow up, work on your relationship, and stop coming on here looking for the magic cure to your problems. You are responsible for yourself, and if you don't quit doubting him, you will be responsible when he leaves.