Question about Quinceaneras?

Question

I'm 16 and a italian american so i dont know nothing about mexican cultures and stuff, but my neighbor is mexican. And my neighbor had some family come to stay with her and i got realy close with one of her neices.

Anyways the neice is gonna have her Quinceanera or whatever its called and all her relatives were joking that i should be her main Chambelan.

I really like this girl and i whould definately do it but i dunno if it's unpolite to tell her or my neighbor (her aunt) that i wanna do it, or does the girl have to aks all the guys?

p.s. if it means anything, i can talk spanish pretty good from class in HS.

Answer 1

I don't think it would be impolite. That is how my sister got her Chambelan. He basically said "I would be honored if you chose me to be your chambelan" and my sis said yes. No one thought it was rude. I actually thought it was sweet. Then she went ahead to asking the rest of the guys she wanted for the dance.