Question about a cancer guy.?

Question

I have liked a cancer guy for awhile now. He is 9 years older than I am which doesn't bother me any. I was always pretty sure he was interested in me because he'd stare, smile, wave, blush and get nervous everytime he saw me but lately he just gives me these blank stares everytime he see's me. Well the other day someone I know let it slip to a guy who works with him that I also know too that I'm basically interested in him and he told the person I know that "he's too old for me and he's not focused" and the person I know said age isn't everything and the guy goes "I know but he's just too old for her". He also said "he can get moody and some days are better than others and that he's a Mama's boy." I know he does live with his Mother, he has for atleast the past 3 years. I kinda think I should move on and I'm thinking that what this guy said is basically trying to say the same thing but I'm not sure. What do you think?

Answer 1

I wouldn't trust what these guys are telling you... they are probably jealous. You should find out for yourself, but don't get in over your head.

Answer 2

move on the friend is just being nice or he wants to get in your pants

Answer 3

Age doesn't matter my Cancer man is 18 years older than me and its the best relationship I have ever been in my life!

Also you don't know what his situation is, not all Cancer men are mama's boys. He may of been divorced or trying to pay off college loans, it may be more economical for him to stay with his mother, he could also be taking care of her. You don't know.  I think you should go with your gut. If you're interested in him then get his number talk to him on  the phone, get to know him you don't have to date him. Just get to know him and then go from there.