Our family just recently found out about and met a daughter that my father never knew that he had; up until about 9-10 months ago. During this time our father, and I have been very excited about it, and have spent a lot of time getting to know her, trading photo's etc. I've never had a bio-sister so for me it's been very exciting. The problem is the rest of the family. My step-mother who is 17 years younger than my father is upset and initially left Dad when she found out about his "new" daughter; which to me is bizarre; as my father would have conceived this child roughly 14 years prior to my father ever even meeting my (very insecure) step-mother. Further; most of the family feels that she (new sibling) is butting into our lives. She does have a strong and somewhat needy personality; I've just assumed that at some level this has something to do with having been given up for adoption, and her feelings of rejection (she has spoken to me about this so it is not an assumption)
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