Question about best friends?

Question

Well first of all one is a guy and one is a girl

Well the girl I used to like but that's history now so anyway

They both have talked to each other over MSN and such when the guy is at my house and they are even like good friends but they have never met me and the only way they actually know each other is through a 3 hour phone call at my house and MSN at my house

I have been wanting them to meet up so we could hang out but it never seems like they are both free at one time

She is just busy with different summer stuff and dance season is starting soon so she is freaking out about that

He is a football player and he has been my friend since we were like 3 and he just gets constantly busy with that

Then there is me the laid back guy who is always free and just lazy for the most part

So I'm wondering how I would be able to get all of us to hang out at one point.

The girl is one year younger and goes to a diffrent school

Answer 1

It sounds like your friends are discovering their own interests and making new friends.  This is part of life, and you should be sure to develop your own interests and friendships.  I think it's great that you want to keep your friendships going, but if it's a one-sided attempt, you're going to get frustrated.