Question about friends in school.?

Question

I do have friends in school. I def don't want to be popular that is too much work to have to watch what u do and say. Well i will be going into 10th grade and i was wondering is it already ruined that i will not have many friends. I do have some friends and one really good friend. Alot of the people in my school make fun of my (don't ask me why, but they call me g*y) well i am not g*y. Well anyways it is already set that i am not gonna make any more friends or have more friends than what i have. Like when lunch comes around what if i have noone to sit with cuz i have a different lunch than my friends? The teachers that i had in elementary always say my graduating class is a pretty bad class when it comes to making fun of people and stuff. So if you could please answer my questions that would be great!!!!

BTW i go back to school tomorrow so an answers tonight would be great.

Answer 1

No, it is not set for life how many friends you have.  Fortunately, people mature.  You will meet many people in your life and make new friends while keeping some of your old friends.

Answer 2

Here's what I see that youre doing.

Your planning out your troubles.

Maybe there will be none !

Youre planning on not having any more friends. " Its already set ? "

How do you know ?  Maybe youve yet to meet the best friend of your life.

Just let it happen. Quit worrying. Live each day as it comes.

Talk to girls, and be flirty...even if you dont ask them out.   Get rid of those rumors. Its a brand new beginning   A fresh start.  People grow a lot over the summer before 10th grade



Be friendly.  Say hi to people you have in other classes.  

My dad told me this.. the least you can do is acknowledge that someone exists and say hello to them, when you come across their path.     I did that and was quite popular in high school.  People like to feel noticed.

The thing to remember is everyone isnt grown up. NO ONE is yet.   Not even the seniors.  Theyre all just learning about life, like you are.

Answer 3

if people call u g*y . ignored them or tell them that "if u wanna know i'm g*y just come home with me and we will make a baby"

Answer 4

Well change your schedule! And if that doesn't work then just don't go to lunch like go to the office or nurse office and you need to change your set of friends and I hope you have fun at your first day of school!