Question about getting pregnant????

Question

i have been with my boyfriend for like two years.

im 15 and hes 16

and we might be young but were in love

i have been having s*x with him for like a year and a half.

the bad part is,,,,we have only used a condom twice

and im not on the pill.

he always stops and pulls it out if he even thinks he is going to have a orgaism.

but, i heard about like the presprem thing.

can guys feel that come out??

or can you get pregnant from that??

i cant get the pill because i cant tell my parents.

like they would flip

they are super strict on me.

how do you feel about teenage pregnancy???

i kinda sometimes feel like i want to get pregnant.

i think its more of a rebellion thing just so i cant be perfect like they want me to be.

im VERY responsible and mature.

my real mom left me when i was two so i want to jusst be a mom so i can be there for it. because i know how it feels to be adopted and not cared about.

i want to start my life over.

idk. what do you think???

dont have to be mean to me about anything

if you dont agree with me

or have anything nice to say

just dont say anyting at all

Answer 1

It is possible to get pregnant from precum. you are young and love doesn't mean you have to have a baby. I would wait. Plus you would have to think about how your going to take care of all the expenses, school, do your parents have time to help. you wont be able to do things as you used to. who could watch the baby while your in school. you need a high school diploma to get any kind of job. unless you get a G.E.D  but that would suck cause of all the tests. who would get up and down with the baby every 2-4 hours. there is alot to think about. I'm just trying to help.

Answer 2

well you can get pregnant from the presperm thing.  To me teenage pregnancy is not something that I would(im a teenager) but everyone is different.  Consider wats at stake.  If u have a baby ull hav to focus on he or she and ull spend less time with skool and bad things will begin to happen and wen u get older it would only get harder.  and ull also hav to provide for the baby so ull need a decent job. so i wud wait so that u cud get a good degree wich will get u a good job and then u cud have a baby  but then again u might hav a lot of money, u might be smart or u might be able to do all those things so just ask urself cud i really do all this.  but its all up to u and wat financial and eductational state ur in. so if u feel u can handle doing all that then go ahead, hav a baby

Answer 3

Well i'm pregnant right now with a little boy and im so excited, just to feel him kick Oh my gosh I LOVE IT, today I felt him hiccup for the first time=)...Pregnancy is very hard when your young and unmarried and right now it's very hard on me and my 2 year boyfriend, we love eachother , but we fight alot...but it would be alot easier if you were older because alot of the time things don't work out as planned, like your bf could leave, but the girl can't run!  My advice to you would be use a condom until your both sure your ready for the responsibility that comes with a child, it's very hard and sometimes stressful, if you need anything you can talk to me anytime=)

Answer 4

Yes you can definitely get pregnant from that. No he doesn't feel it.

I got married when I was 16 and got pregnant a month later. I thought I was sooo ready for it and I was so excited. I love my kids and I wouldn't trade them for anything but it ruined all the plans I had for myself.

Now almost 10 years later I am a single divorced mom of two beautiful kids. The best advice I can give you is to be a teenager. Don't rush everything so much. When you get my age your going to wonder where your life went because you had to grow up so fast. I am sure you are mature and you feel like you are ready and no one can convince you otherwise.

Just think about how much responsibility it takes to raise a child. Does he have a job and able to support a family? Do you have a job and the ability to support your kids? Do you plan to live with your parents or his parents with the baby? Can you afford rent, electricity, phone, groceries, diapers, baby clothes, health insurance, day care all on your own or do you want to rely on your parents for everything?

I work two jobs to support my kids and I never got to finish college because I had to quit going to school to get my second job. If I could go back to when I was 16 my life would be completely different.  

Answer 5

s***n leaks out during intercourse when the p***s is in the v****a-the sperm then travels up into and thru the cervix and if there is an egg there, you are going to become pregnant. Last year I became a grandma for the first time and it was a surprise to say the least, but I told my daughter she was going to have this baby and we wud get by however we could and do whatever we needed to do. Talk to your mom-tell her the truth, she may seem really strick but right now I know she would want to know and help you. I know your young and I know how you feel about being in love at this tender age. Go to a clinic and get on birth control, usually they will see you if you are underage anyway. OR maybe there is another adult you can confide in and she can help you. You have your whole life ahead of you and yes being a mom is a great thing but give yourself a few more years, you wont be feeling the same way about all this. You have proms and your drivers license coming up and college-give yourself some more time. I will pray for you!

Answer 6

Having a baby young is a very hard thing to do, especially when the mother and/or father are in school. But it has happened successfully before and no doubt will again. Most people would say its better to be older though, once the parent/s have gotten established as adults in the world. I would say if you want to have a child, make sure your doing it with full knowledge of the commitment and responsibilities involved and do it for the right reasons.

If you want to go on the pill and you dont want your parents to know, you might be able to get it without their consent. if you cant stop them from finding out, tell them its for medical reasons. Plenty of people take the contraceptive pill even when they arent having s*x because it regulates their periods, helps to control symptoms and period pains, and mood swings, and can have positive effects on acne problems.

Answer 7

Oh dear. You can get on the pill without talking to your parents. If you have any friends that drive, or maybe your boyfriend can take you to the closest planned parenthood center. They have loads of birth control in the form of condoms and pills that I'm pretty sure are free or very very inexpensive.

I know that it might feel exciting to want to rebel and the idea of pregnancy fits that mold, but at your age it isn't a good idea. You're still technically a child. You won't be "starting your life over" if you have a kid, you'd be starting a new, very difficult life and setting an unhealthy stage for the baby because you aren't ready to support one!!

Be safe, have as much protected s*x as you please : ) Just don't think about having a kid. No more unprotected s*x allowed!

Answer 8

You can and probably will get pregnant from precum if you continue what you're doing. The sperm in that is highly concentrate and more potent than what comes out in his o****m. You are playing Russian Roulette and it's only a matter of time before you get pregnant.

You need to know that you can go to planned parenthood or just about any free or low cost women's clinic and get on the pill without parental permission or knowledge. At least use a spermacide killer in the meantime from Wal mart or the drugstore. They're not even close to 100% but better than nothing.

You have no idea what you're life will be like if you get pregnant. I'm pregnant in my late 30's having my first baby and I have felt like barfing nonstop for the past 3 months and it's NOT going away! I feel like I have a stomach flu that goes on forever and like I just got hit by a truck and I really WANT this baby.

You can be a mentor to younger girls without having a baby. You know you're not ready yet and you have like 25 years of fertile years left!! (I'm 38 and it's my FIRST baby) You're only thinking of the good stuff, not the way you'll feel if pregnant, the baby waking up every hour or 2, throwing up, crying & pooping constantly, and the young adulthood life in your 20's that you'll give up. How would you pay for a child now? Ready to work 2 or 3 jobs and have NO life? Volunteer with babies or little kids if you want but please don't ruin your life.

Answer 9

for starters you can go to a health clinic and get pill wiv out ya mum knowing. please take my advice and dont try and get pregnant i had my son at 18 and it is so hard you dont realise just think wen all your ffriends go out you wont be able 2 this dont bother me tho as i was a bad gurl n was drinkin at like 14 so it has put me off it now also you say u wanna do it 2 get bak at your parents but this is not a good way as trust me you will need their help also what is 2 say your bf will stick by you he says he will now but that before baby is here please think bout it hun