Question about masturbation while in a relationship?

Question

I have a gf and i am truly happy with her shes amazing to me and i could not see myself with anyone else. OK the question is , is it wrong to m********e while i have a gf. She sexually satisfies me without any complaints and i couldnt ask for anything else i am perfectly content with what she does and how she is. I just dont know if it is wrong to m********e to other girls . I know that sometimes change is good and every time i do m********e i try to think of her as hard as i can. I worry that this is wrong to do. I confronted to her about it an she was fine with it, she knows i love her. But just in case i made a promise to myself to never do it again while with her. So is my heart in the wrong place is this natural to do or was i wrong. It is causing me some stress and would like to hear others answers.

Answer 1

No, it is not wrong.  It is perfectly normal to m********e regularly even while you're in the best relationship in the world!  Masturbation is like staying in practice so you can do well with your girlfriend.  ;)

It's perfectly OK to fantasize about other people while you're masturbating or even having s*x with your girlfriend.  It doesn't mean you don't love her or that you're not happy with her.  Humans are not naturally monogamous animals.  We are supposed to be with multiple sexual partners.  Fantasizing about others means your brain is normal.

Maybe it will help you to realize that your girlfriend also masturbates and fantasizes about other guys.  We all do this.  It's normal.

By the way, you now your girlfriend will be able to see this question you've asked on her account, right?

Answer 2

Well, Ellen....It's perfectly natural to m********e...whether you're a guy or a girl, and whether you are in a relationship or not. Natural Natural Natural...

Unless there is a farm animal involved...in that case you need to seek professional help.

Answer 3

Dude, I am married with two little boys and still have great relations, but i still m********e! I am 28 and don't plan on stopping anytime soon!

Answer 4

Are you a guy or a girl?  I notice your name is "ellen k".

Answer 5

For a normal guy, no matter how good your girl satisfies you or how good she looks, you're going to m********e and you're going to think about other girls. It's natural.

Answer 6

Like every one says, it is natural. But !!!! can bring on premature ejaculation. And as a military friend says, you only get one packet of bullets with each rifle. So later in life when the old fella does not respond, you and your partner have to resort to drugs.

Bets advise is to take it easy, don't waste the bullets.

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Answer 7

Its perfectly normal, so don't worry.

Guys naturally have a much higher s*x drive than women and are just hornier and desire s*x more often.  Its nothing to be ashamed of, its just our nature.

Masturbation is way better than doing it with other women, so as long as you both love each other, it shouldn't harm your relationship.

Answer 8

I don't think there is anything wrong with it.  My fiance admits to masturbating when I am not around, says he looks at some naked pics of me while he'd doing it but I don't know on that... LOL and don't care...  if she is cool with it m********e together while watching each other its a good way to learn what the other person likes and then you have something to imagine the next time you are alone

Answer 9

Don't worry masturbation is not being unfaithful.  When you m********e you're not doing it with anyone else!

Any fantasy work you do in your head is normal and allowed- you are being totally faithful by having a active fantasy life!!!