Question about my Libra (ex?) boyfriend. I'll keep it short.?

Question

I talked to him on Sunday and everything was fine. And now I haven't heard from him since. He won't answer my calls or text messages. Nothing happened to warrant this disappearing act. At this point I'm giving it up as a lost cause. Do Libras just disappear like that with no explanation?

Answer 1

the worse you treat a libra the more he hangs out thinking he needs to change how mean you are. You maybe weren't needing any of what he only knows he can give you. If your life does not fully need him he doesn't need to be there. He will find and exist where need be.

Answer 2

I'M A LIBRA AND NO THEY DON'T!!!! actually i know nothing about astrology... um... maybe he is just busy?? you never know... why don't you talk to him in person or something...

Answer 3

no,its not a libra thing.its the typical modus operandi of any guy who just really isnt all that into someone.look for someone who deserves u,this man is not good boyfriend/husband material,no matter what sign he is.most women have at least one "disapearing boyfriend" at some point in their lives,and they are men of any/all signs.its easier on him to come and go and not explain himself-he has no actual regard for ur feelings.immature.write him off!

Answer 4

Yes- give up!

Answer 5

He isn't just heart broken, he is shattered. Libras usually try to hold on to exes with the hope of getting them back. When a Libra hits the point of heartbreak that is beyond their handling they disappear out of your life as well as many others. Ask people that also is his friend and see if they have had any luck talking to him. If a few of them say he disappeared then this is the reason.

We disappear after really bad heartbreaks. I recommend giving him some time. Sometimes we need our personal space. Personal space and time alone to reflect on our thoughts, decisions is a common thing we do.

Also for explanation, just be straight forward and ask what is going on with him, but in a nice way. He might not answer at first, but it will eat at him. You have to slowly pick at us to get answers. Being very nice is the way to get us to spill anything.

Gah. One more thing. Yes it is a Libra thing to disappear. We are a very self-centered sign and even though most Libras will deny it, we often go weeks without talking to our friends, family, and loved ones.

Answer 6

Sun:Scorpio

Moon: Scorpio

Venus: Libra

Okay, honestly you need to cut his a** off -PRONTO!! Air signs don't work well with a person who needs alot of emotional validation, which it seems you do.

Don't contact him again. Play it cool and aloof like you could care less if he calls you or not.

In a few days, I guarantee he will get in touch with you! Why? Because the pressure is off, and you let him "breathe"

Besides, he's not your bf anymore....so don't worry about it too much.

Answer 7

Maybe the fact that you're his ex, he doesn't want to talk to you yet because he believes that it'll be a mess of emotions. I have a Moon in Libra, and I know that I tend to ignore people when I don't want to deal with any messy slates. Or maybe he's just negligent, although Libras usually aren't, there are other aspects that could affect this.

Answer 8

He's going to reappear someday and he'll have a real good explanation for why he had to "disappear".   You'll have to decide in advance if you will just accept his explanation or if you can't resist drilling him for info.

He was bad to do this.  even if he has cancer and 2 weeks to live, he could have called you.  text message.  So he is definitely being bad.

THere is something that attracted him to you in the first place.  That has not disappeared.  Can you think of what it was.  Has that changed.

Answer 9

Yes, I have a libra ex  that I just want to talk too. But I can't get him to answer my calls or messages either. He seemed all fine the last time I talked to him. I think the male libras do this. But who knows, he does this sometimes then he will come back and have some excuse to talk to you again.

Answer 10

I'm libra rising but scorpio sun. I don't think that's a Libran characteristic.

Answer 11

libra's tend to hate conflict and avoid it. The fact that he is your (ex) boyfriend, I would say he is just ignoring you right now. He will come around eventually. My boyfriend has the moon in libra and he gets this way, if I text him something and he doesn't want to answer it he just doesn't text me back at all. He avoids conflict and confrontation all the time, I'm a libra myself and I personally can't stand it. I don't like conflict either, but I've realized that you can't work anything out unless you talk about it. He just has his way of pushing things away and not dealing with them, which is what I imagine your libra is doing right now. Give him some time, he can't hide forever.

Answer 12

No, I don't think it has anything to do with horoscopes. Either you did something to him or he found another girlfriend. Just pay him a visit to his house and talk to him.

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Answer 13

no im a libra and i dont just dissapear it's a guy thing not a libra thing

Answer 14

ok i would takl with him fro a whel because maybe on vacation with his family  or just miss up or being a jerk

Answer 15

Hello there.

I went out with a Libra man, and I'm Virgo as well....

We don't really work together; most Libra men are players, but I really don't know about yours. My guy was always ignoring me just like that,  then he would call and be nice, but he would never give me an excuse, or at least a good one.

Libra men are terrible liars, they don't like commitment, and they HATE being questioned, they also hate conflict, and hate fighting in general, but they can be VERY kind and caring sometimes.

Answer 16

I have heard of Libras doing this, but I am a Libra, and would never do this to someone that I am involved with.

The problem is, many Libras have a problem with confrontation and conflict. They may have a lot on their minds and concerns that they want to discuss, but are so afraid of messing things up, that they retreat into themselves, and try to avoid you for a while until they have come up with the proper solution.

I may be a Libra, but this personally annoys me...And I have witnessed Libra guys do this to my friend as well, and I just see it as insecurity, and an inability to face problems. An evolved Libran would learn to overcome this problem and face up to it. Of course, you also have to look at what's in his chart, because with certain influences, he could be extremely wracked by conflict, and that could add to the problem.

Chances are, he may just need time away to think, and he will contact you again...So I would give it a bit more time. Wait it out and hear from him when he's ready to talk. However, if he keeps this up and doesn't give you any information at all...I would probably try to move on. A relationship can't work if their is no communication, and if he is always avoiding problems like this, it will only add to the stress.

Answer 17

imma aries 4-1, and im older than you.......

most libras are pretty level, and strait forward.

i get in moods, but i always tell people hey im kinda feelin a man pause coming on and theyll all say hey we will holler later, or just message me not try to talk until im ready...........

i consider myself a friend for you if you wanna talk. you have my email addy.

Answer 18

A totally serene relationship is what you seek; yet when achieved it is boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.

Alone" is not in Libra's bountiful vocabulary, nor is "lonely." A life of solitude is just not acceptible, and if your Libra does not feel sufficiently loved, you're sure to hear about it one way or another. If she doesn't find you sitting lovestruck by her side, she'll be fluttering her lashes at the nearest handsome beau, or lavishing gifts upon herself to feel sufficiently adored. If he finds you unattentive or yawning at his words, he will undoubtedly start flirting with the nearest skirt!

Libra is a child of Venus, and will not hesitate to use all the charms the goddess of love possesses in order to get what she wants. Beauty, grace, wit, style and all the wiles of a temptress or temptor are at your Libra's command. How can you possibly hold onto such a romantic creature?

First of all, you must be fair with your Libra. She is highly aware of balance and harmony in all things and can detect the slightest hint of inequity. And be open - your Libra is so focused on YOU that he can surely read your mind anyway. It's especially helpful, too, if you are appreciative of all things beautiful - music, art and people - (especially your Venusian Prince or Princess!). Or if art doesn't grab you, your mind must be active and entertaining enough to keep your Libra interested in everything you have to say. Then again, if you are a terrific lover, you can forget about the rest!

The bottom line is, feed your Libra's insatiable need for beauty, love and partnership and you're home free. You can get away with criticism if it's done with a hilarious sense of humor. You can get away with flirting if you flirt doubly (make that triply) with your Libra. And you can get away with boredom if you lavish your Libra with anything pleasing to the senses. It's as simple as that!

Help your Libra with making decisions. Participate in his schemes. Make loving suggestions while she is decorating or dressing. But most of all, make sure your Libra feels adored - and you will be rewarded with one of the most charming, generous, beautiful, handsome, intelligent, witty and doting mates the Zodiac has to offer!