Question about physical chemistry ............ Do you feel it?

Question

right away? At first touch look kiss?

Describe it for me.

Has it happened differently for you? How?

Answer 1

You feel it right away. And in that moment you are recognizing it. It is obvious in that moment: "Ahaaaa!!! This is chemistry"

The problem is before that moment:P:P

Because you can fool yourself in many ways that: "well, common, it's ok, it's a nice feeling, maybe it's chemistry"

:D

BUT....

Even with the best chemistry, there must be openness. IF there's no openness between you two, or if at least one is closed in his thoughts / mind, then this chemistry will be obstructed...Can generate obssessions and other stuff.

But the feeling itself is clear and obvious when it's happening. And it happens right away.

Afterwards, it's about energy. Even with the best match for you, if you don't have energy, or waste ur energy, this attraction goes away.

And if you meet other persons, you cannot say it's a pain that u don't feel that attraction exactly the same.

You know what I realized?

That it's better to have a less physical attraction in the ecuation, and more compatibility on the spiritual level. That's best.

My first lover was like a magnet for me, and we are still like magnets in a way. But this was keeping us breaking up, and coming together. It's quite frustrating to be manipulated in such a way u know?

It's best to be compatibile in the long run. Physical level, if it's average at least, will explode with sensations and all kinds of beautiful feelings when 2 persons really meet and are open to share and enjoy together their experience.

My bet is on openness.

Physical attraction is way below as a priority for me:P

Hope this helps...

Answer 2

I have felt it before.  It was amazing.  I fell in love with this guy the moment he touched me.  His skin was so soft, but the way he touched me (on the face), it just sent shivers all through my body.  I did feel it right away.  It felt like an electric shock...lol.  I'll never forget that as long as I live.  He was my first love.

Answer 3

An ex of mine can make me fall in love whenever she wants by giving me a certain look, and as long as I am within three or four feet of her. I'm pretty sure it's a scent mixed with another sense that would give you the immediate euphoric feeling. I can't help it, so I try to stay away when I can.