Question about s*x - after marriage?

Question

say you are getting married after which, when your husband approaches you for s*x the first time, how do you really say that your husband is still a virgin....

does any of his action makes you guess that he is already experienced

serious answers only please

Answer 1

He should tell you..or you should ask him

Answer 2

Men learn a lot from tv, magazines and their friends about s*x.  You should not marry a man if you do not trust him.  If he says he's a virgin, then I would hope you two are close enough and have a trusting relationship to where you would not second guess it.  There is no way to actually be able to tell if he is a virgin or not. sorry!

Answer 3

The only way for a man or woman to truly know their spouse is a virgin is to have the trust that the relationship should be built upon.  If you don't trust him, you shouldn't marry him.  Your fears and insecurities will only grow with time.  If you are having trouble trusting him, talk to him.  

There is no way to verify if a man or a woman is a virgin.

Answer 4

you shouldnt have married him if you dont trust him. if you say you trust him, then do just that, trust that he is telling you the truth.

Answer 5

I could not imagine that two people could be close to being married and have not talked about their pasts and their experience levels. Are you saying that if he is not a virgin that you will not marry him? s*x is something you share together, learn about together, and get better at together. Sounds to me like you are adding unnecessary pressure to the situation... A honeymoon should be open, honest, and spontaneous.... not some kind of orchestrated seduction...

Answer 6

Why does it matter? Just do it and then you will know for sure.

Answer 7

ask him, the best relationships are centered around open communication and honesty.

Answer 8

well you are married now what difference does it make...let me tell you it's not gonna make any difference to him if you are or not now you are his wife, just ask him if you want to know. well I guess his actions will, I was with a man once and I could tell he was very inexperienced so maybe you could tell by his actions he wasn't a virgin just hadn't had much experience.

Answer 9

Talk about all your experiences. Together.  Find out about each other.  Ask him what he likes and how. has he ever experienced it.  Communication also helps grow the sexual tension too!!!

Answer 10

I am unclear about what you are asking?

Answer 11

y don u ask him? isnt that a lot easier?  

Answer 12

You don't, really.  You can only trust what he tells you.

There are no physical indications for the male, as there can be for the female.  As for behavior, well, plenty of experienced people still have no clue how to do well at s*x, especially in pleasing their partner.  Plenty of inexperienced people study p**n or read up on technique in hopes that they won't dissapoint their partner.

Answer 13

Wait are you asking if you can tell your husband's a virgin or not?  Well that's kind of hard to tell if he's a good actor...or just did his 'studies' and knows how to do it really well.  But most would be nervous, i know i was my first time....i couldn't even get it up i was so self-conscious....but eventually the lust got me back up, and i was ready and willing.

Otherwise it's pretty much impossible to tell, unless someone he's done it with comes out or something.

Answer 14

Well,if he knows exactly what to do to turn you on I think I would question it.I don't think a true virgin male has a clue about a woman's body.

Answer 15

Are you married and both virgins?

Its time to have s*x if your married

Answer 16

there is no physical way to know if he is a virgin. he could have a clue as to what to do by watching p**n or talking to his more experienced buddies.