Question about what to do when she's on top?

Question

When my girlfriend and I are having s*x, what should I do? I mean, I'm not a virgin (I'm 28) but I'm not exactly the most sexually experienced guy in the world either. So, when she's on top, do I try to move too or do I just let her do all the thrusting?

Anyone with any experience out there, what do you think based on your past experience?? Especially the ladies, what would you recommend that you find works the best. thanks.

Answer 1

Give it a shot.  If she doesn't like it, she'll tell you to stop.  There's no wrong way to eat a Reese's, or to have s*x.

Answer 2

Usually being on top for women means they can have all the control and it doesn't always mean men have to do much then. Although that being said sometimes the guy thrusts too.

...anyway i'd say when your girl is on top let her take direction, if she wants to do all the work let her, it feels good but if she wants you to thrust with her then do it!

haha, it's really not something to be embarrassed to talk about with your partner, if you don't ask how the heck can you get it right? I'm sure she is more than willing to show you what she likes or what feels right. I mean nothing wrong with some constructive criticism and direction is there?

Answer 3

kick-back & enjoy!  reach up and touch her b*****s and see how she reacts.  take in the view, and tell her how nice it is.

Answer 4

I guess it depends on the couple! There is no right or wrong way, its whatever feels best for you.

My boyfriend likes it when I do all he work, but now and again he would do the 'thrusting' (god i hate that word) becasue it gets very tiring up there!

So just dowhat feels best. Or wait for her to take control.  

Answer 5

Well for starters, let her do it... help her out a little by grabbing her hips, and guiding her to both pleasure points.  

Answer 6

dont know i only have had s*x once.

Answer 7

just lay there and let her control all the movements.

u can help out by saying erotic/sweet stuff...caress her etc.

If she is on top but leaning downwards on u, u can hug her. Or u can try to catch her momentum and synchronize with her by pumping her.

Answer 8

CHILL and enjoy.  

Answer 9

well let her do her thing, she just really want to see that you are enjoying having her on top dong the work. show it in your face that you like it,and moan too, girl love to here it as well. grab her breast tell her "oh yeah, baby dont stop..faster...your so good...ect.." then you can try lifting her up a bit and you lift your pelvic up and thrust  into her while she is still on top. she will like that!! but let her work it first. pay attention to when she starts to get tired then you help with the work.  

Answer 10

Hooooooold. Hooooooooooold.

Answer 11

You should both move. Let her set the tone. She should be pretty much upright so you can get to her clitoris fairly easy. That makes for some good s*x.

She might want to lay on you, in that case you have access to her b*****s.